My Broken Language Quotes

“If you're fluent in a language there's a place you belong.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“To understand mom’s many tongues and therefore close the distance between myself and the people I loved and the people I was losing—most of all my mother. I wanted to arm myself against Western Art’s easy idiom, to master a more complex language, one that richly described my world.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“You don't notice erosion when it's happening.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“They were not the faith I chose. Like mom’s ghostly visitors when she was five, my cousins chose me, knocking on my midnight door, portentous at my bedside. After all my god denying and god shopping. After all my hours in Quaker pews, reading Yoruba books, studying Lukumí prayers. Just so the universe could be cute a decade later and pass me a note in class. You were born into the church, Qui Qui.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Language that aims toward perfection, she told me, is a lie. Shakespeare knew this, she said, and broke English until its dictionaries grew by a thousand entries. Tennyson knew it in 1835 when he, the Great Poet, used one word to express a vastness. Break, break, break.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Language was not what connected us as a family. A dinner table ritual, where people gather to discuss news of the day, was not at the heart of how we communicated. Bodies were the mother tongue at Abuela’s, with Spanish second and English third. Dancing and ass-slapping, palmfuls of rice, ponytail-pulling and wound-dressing, banging a pot to the clave beat. Hands didn’t get lost in translation. Hips bridged gaps where words failed.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“All these literary patriarchs paraded their woe like it was some main event. Hamlet brooded, Romeo beat his chest, Willy went mad. Why didn’t they dance like the Perez women? Were they so above the fray? No billboards or sitcoms had declared my Perez cousins queen, and I now saw freedom in this. No false thrones, just the shitstorm of life. Grab a shovel and sing a work song. Build a throne that’s real.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Books were recipes for my inner life's feast.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Zipping my lips meant swallowing my contradictions and confusions, guarding the flavor for only myself.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“I had never read a book like abuela's living room, but still I savored it my preferred way - like the private, treasured pages of a novel.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Mom, if you ever read this book (and make it this far without disowning me), I ask you one favor: break this English language today and tomorrow and the day after and bestow it new life with each breaking. Endow your fullness upon this cracked colonial tongue. You language genius. This is your English. You earned it. I am only a guest here.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language: A Memoir

“I lacked the craft and dexterity to match my narrative intoxication. But the son montunos and Mozart of my adolescence offered themselves anew, this time as dramaturgical structures. Fugues and batá songs had sturdy architectures. Bach gave me motivic momentum. Batá gave me slow-build suspense. One scene ended tempestuously, raucously. What next, after all that explosion, how to start anew? Schubert offered clues. There lay the answer in his A-major sonata, the one I’d recorded at Yale. After fortissimo, a note or two to test the water. After cacophony, a single solitary melodic line.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Find your fellow travelers. It was a foundational Vogel teaching. When a door opens for you, bring another person through. Oft-repeated Paula scripture.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Your Spanish is broken?” Paula said. “Then write your broken Spanish.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“This is stuff that’s not written anywhere, Quiara. Y recuerdas que, if it’s not written down, it doesn’t exist. Didn’t I always say how much power a library shelf holds?”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“But how I yearned to share the numinous world I had come to study, metabolize, and respect. Maybe that’s why I began looking away from Sterling Library. Because I was dreaming, instead, of a library I might fit into. One with space to hold my cousins, my tías, my sister, mi madre. An archive made of us, that held our concepts and reality so that future Perez girls would have no question of our existence or validity.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Flannery O’Connor was first on the agenda. Previously I’d been taught to read for plot and theme, but O’Connor was all landscape. I had never been to the South and now here it was, grotesque and monstrous. In her paragraphs the air tasted of molasses and smiling strangers exposed invisible fangs. In O’Connor the devil lurked in all corners, most especially the pious and proper ones. This author wrote blunt and with hell on her mind, odd and unwholesome and bad to the bone.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“He read the poem like he loved the poem, intoning phrases as though they cast spells. In his voice, language was erotic and voluptuous—and he lingered for a moment in delicious places. I thought, I want to belong somewhere the way that stranger’s voice belongs to those words.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“My emergent superpower, an increasing fluency in Western Canon, brought exhilaration and comfort because if you’re fluent in a language, there’s a place you belong.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“I feared that not crying meant I hadn’t loved them enough. Perhaps weeping and dancing live in the same place within us, and I had shuttered that part of me away. The part that touches grief, euphoria, and god. Without tears, I could never legitimately call them my losses, only ours.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“If you won a shopping spree and loaded your cart full of cousins, that was Abuela’s house.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Life is nice. Sometimes a bit hard. Romance feels good.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“This is my warning lobbed right at the mirror: that if you ask for an audience, you best have something to say. That if you have something to say, the clock is ticking on the hours left to say it.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Underground, mom had built magnificent thrones. Could I build a throne made of visibility?”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“There beyond us twinkled the City of Brotherly Love. Somewhere in that cluster of lights, a founding father had written about 'self-evident truths'. But I no faith in self-evidence of any kind.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“we watch our old silences become loud songs. We are here.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“You, my Perez women, understand because you are the throne and the dance. You shook your asses as the world’s walls tried to crush you. Mami, primas, hermana, no one else qualifies for the job. We must be our own librarians because we alone are literate in our bodies. By naming our pain and voicing our imperfections, we declare our tremendous survival. Our offspring deserve to inherit these strategies. We have worked hard to be here. We owe them ourselves. We owe each other.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Ho. All the shame a woman carried. How mom branded the word unto her heart. AZADA AZADA AZADA! But what use was a garden tool, I railed, when the Perez women had divorced mother nature? Abuela’s gandules harvest, over. Mom’s circle of sage, dead. My horse farm woods, gone. Ripped and rent from all soil, we who had once been earth-women and were now North Philly—treeless rubble, tire-strewn and derelict. But wait. Hadn’t one plot of land persisted? Migrated with us all this way? One human-size patch of earth? Our bodies. I am tired soil, break me, wound me. I AM A WHORE….”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Every morning I lit a candle, played batá music, and warmed up with a poem for Oshun, Orisha of female sensuality”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language

“Perez nudity was rebirth of a daily order, a resetting of the spirit to its naïve state, both a freedom and a strong protection.”
― Quiara Alegría Hudes, My Broken Language