Happiness Quotes

“We try to fix the outside so much, but our control of the outer world is limited, temporary, and often, illusory.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Happiness is a state of inner fulfillment, not the gratification of inexhaustible desires for outward things.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“One is not born wise; one becomes it.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“I have also come to understand that although some people are naturally happier than others, their happiness is still vulnerable and incomplete, and that achieving durable happiness as a way of being is a skill. It requires sustained effort in training the mind and developing a set of human qualities, such as inner peace, mindfulness, and altruistic love.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“We are very much like birds that have lived too long in a cage to which we return even when we get the chance to fly away. We have grown so accustomed to our faults that we can barely imagine what life would be like without them. The prospect of change makes us dizzy.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Tibetan poet Shabkar said: “One with compassion is kind even when angry; one without compassion will kill even as he smiles.”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“He understands that all beings have the power to free themselves from ignorance and unhappiness, but that they don’t know it. How”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“The humble person has nothing to lose and nothing to gain. If she is praised, she feels that it is humility, and not herself, that is being praised. If she is criticized, she feels that bringing her faults to light is a great favor. “Few people are wise enough to prefer useful criticism to treacherous praise,” wrote La Rochefoucauld, echoing the Tibetan sages who are pleased to recall that “the best teaching is that which unmasks our hidden faults.” Free of hope and fear alike, the humble person remains lighthearted.”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Repeatedly comparing our situation with that of others is a kind of sickness of the mind that brings much unnecessary discontent and frustration. When we have a new source of enjoyment or a new car, we get excited and feel that we are at the top of our game. But we soon get used to it and our excitement subsides; when a new model comes out we become unhappy with the one we have and feel that we can only be satisfied if we get the new one, especially if other people around us have it. We are caught on the “hedonic treadmill” — a concept coined by P. Brinkman and D. T. Campbell.7 While jogging on a treadmill, we need to keep running simply to remain in the same spot. In this case, we need to keep running toward acquiring more things and new sources of excitement simply to maintain our current level of satisfaction.”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Those who seek happiness in pleasure, wealth, glory, power, and heroics are as naive as the child who tries to catch a rainbow and wear it as a coat. DILGO KHYENTSE RINPOCHE”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Happiness does not come automatically. It is not a gift that good fortune bestows upon us and a reversal of fortune takes back. It depends on us alone. One does not become happy overnight, but with patient labor, day after day. Happiness is constructed, and that requires effort and time. In order to become happy, we have to learn how to change ourselves. LUCA AND FRANCESCO CAVALLI-SFORZA”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“May every moment of my life and of the lives of others be one of wisdom, flourishing, and inner peace!”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“The search for happiness is not about looking at life through rose-colored glasses or blinding oneself to the pain and imperfections of the world. Nor is happiness a state of exaltation to be perpetuated at all costs; it is the purging of mental toxins, such as hatred and obsession, that literally poison the mind. It is also about learning how to put things in perspective and reduce the gap between appearances and reality. To that end we must acquire a better knowledge of how the mind works and a more accurate insight into the nature of things, for in its deepest sense, suffering is intimately linked to a misapprehension of the nature of reality.”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“What strange hesitancy, fear, or apathy stops us from looking within ourselves, from trying to grasp the true essence of joy and sadness, desire and hatred? Fear of the unknown prevails, and the courage to explore that inner world fails at the frontier of our mind. A Japanese astronomer once confided to me: “It takes a lot of daring to look within.” This remark—made by a scientist at the height of his powers, a steady and open-minded man—intrigued me. Recently I also met a Californian teenager who told me: “I don’t want to look inside myself. I’m afraid of what I’d find there.” Why should he falter before what promised to be an absolutely fascinating research project? As Marcus Aurelius wrote: “Look within; within is the fountain of all good.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Invisible suffering is the hardest to distinguish because it stems from the blindness of our own minds, where it remains so long as we are in the grip of ignorance and selfishness. Our confusion, born of a lack of judgment and wisdom, blinds us to what we must do and avoid doing to ensure that our thoughts, our words, and our actions engender happiness and not suffering. This confusion and the tendencies associated with it drive us to reenact again and again the behavior that lies at the source of our pain. If we want to counteract this harmful misjudgment, we have to awaken from the dream of ignorance and learn to identify the very subtle ways in which happiness and suffering are generated.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“in its deepest sense, suffering is intimately linked to a misapprehension of the nature of reality. R”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“El desapego es la fuerza tranquila de quien está decidido a no dejarse arrastrar por los pensamientos ni acaparar por toda clase de actividades y de ambiciones triviales, que devoran su tiempo y en definitiva solo aportan satisfacciones menores y efímeras.”
― Matthieu Ricard, En Defensa De La Felicidad

“The happiest man is he who has no trace of malice in his soul. PLATO”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Recognize suffering, Eliminate its source, End it By practicing the path.”
― Matthieu Ricard, The Art of Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“A storm may be raging at the surface, but the depths remain calm. The wise man always remains connected to the depths. On the other hand, he who knows only the surface and is unaware of the depths is lost when he is buffeted by the waves of suffering.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“By happiness I mean here a deep sense of flourishing that arises from an exceptionally healthy mind. This is not a mere pleasurable feeling, a fleeting emotion, or a mood, but an optimal state of being. Happiness is also a way of interpreting the world, since while it may be difficult to change the world, it is always possible to change the way we look at it.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“El aburrimiento es el mal de aquellos para los que el tiempo no tiene valor.”
― Matthieu Ricard, En Defensa De La Felicidad

“Si piensa que todo es perfecto en su vida, o bien es usted un buda, o bien es completamente idiota.”
― Matthiew Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Instead of turning your attention to the “target,” simply stare attentively at the emotion itself. You will see that it cannot sustain itself and soon runs out of steam.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Once we get used to looking at thoughts the moment they appear and then allowing them to dissipate before they overwhelm the mind, it is much easier to maintain control over the mind and to manage the conflictive emotions in our active lives.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“This is what Khyentse Rinpoche has to say on the matter: Remember that a thought is only the fleeting conjunction of myriad factors and circumstances. It does not exist by itself. When a thought arises, recognize its empty nature. It will immediately lose its power to elicit the next thought, and the chain of delusion will be broken. Recognize that emptiness of thoughts and allow your thoughts to rest a moment in the relaxed mind so that the mind’s natural clarity remains limpid and unchanged.6”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Try to rest in the present moment, free of concepts. Watch the nature of the gap between thoughts, which is free from mental constructs. Gradually extend the interval between the disappearance of one thought and the emergence of the next. Remain in a state of simplicity that is free of mental constructs, yet perfectly aware; beyond effort, yet alert and mindful. As you thus observe the wellspring of thoughts, it is possible to break their endless proliferation.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“The fleeting experience of pleasure is dependent upon circumstance, on a specific location or moment in time. It is unstable by nature, and the sensation it evokes soon becomes neutral or even unpleasant. Likewise, when repeated it may grow insipid or even lead to disgust;”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“Anyone who enjoys inner peace is no more broken by failure than he is inflated by success.”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill

“change, even a tiny one, in the way we manage our thoughts and perceive and interpret the world can significantly change our existence”
― Matthieu Ricard, Happiness: A Guide to Developing Life's Most Important Skill