Give Me Love Quotes

“I don’t know what I’m going to do with you!” “Give me love,”
― B. Love, Give Me Love

“When you are attached to a person, the love for them that you have is conditional and based on the needs you have that they can meet—the need of time and attention, affection, companionship, sex. So when you become dependent and attached and this relationship ends, you go through withdrawals and have a negative reaction, not because the person you loved is gone, but because your needs are no longer being met. “That’s why you see some people who suffer for long periods of time while others can hop into another relationship quickly. While the first person is unaware of the problem, the second person knows exactly what it is. They know that if they find another person to fulfill those needs accurately, they will no longer need their ex. “Often times we get attached to people solely because they satisfy our needs. “In order to break that cycle, you must be whole within yourself, lacking nothing, so that your partner isn’t expected to complete you but instead complement and enhance you. “And this isn’t just for romantic relationships, though this is where attachment happens most. It also happens within the relationships we have with our family and friends—especially our parents. From birth, they are fulfilling needs, and if we aren’t careful, we will begin to love their hands and not their hearts. That’s why it’s important to truly love and nurture our children, not just spoil them. “When you live like this, understanding that all things are temporary and won’t last forever, you are able to live and love freely without being dependent on anyone for anything because you have already mastered yourself, become aware of yourself, and satisfied yourself through wholeness. If a person dies, yes, it will hurt because we are human. If a relationship ends, yes, it will hurt, because we are human—but you will know, and trust, that life will go on. As Maya Angelou said, love liberates. If it bounds you and makes you feel trapped, that is attachment and a very dangerous type of love. “It’s not an easy way to love, but it’s the healthiest and one that we all need to work on establishing to maintain positive relationships of all kinds. We”
― B. Love, Give Me Love