You Only Fall in Love Three Times Quotes

“What we fail to realize, however, is that it’s never about us doing something different on the outside, but rather about becoming something different on the inside that actually has the biggest effect on our relationships.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“While the wound in question can be different for each of us, it likely will be tied into feelings about abandonment, self-worth, and emotional availability. We stay with a wound mate because unconsciously we enjoy the pain of being wounded—it’s familiar and to leave our wound mate would mean we’d have to let go of that aspect of ourselves that identifies with being the victim.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“A twin flame will love you unconditionally, but will also say, “Hey, this is all your shit. I’m not gonna sugarcoat it and I’m not gonna let you escape it because I love you. And that means helping you to become your best self even if the growth has to come before the love or relationship.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Twin flames are supposed to teach each other about themselves. We are supposed to wake each other up to be a better version of ourselves, to be more aware, conscious, and honest about our desires and wants. So, when we sometimes say this feels like the best love, what we’re really saying is this is the love in which we feel like our best selves. This is the love that feels like it fits the best, even if it’s not something we ever considered before.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“During the reality phase of this love, we will hurt each other. The difference is that twins know exactly where to stick the knife; they know which wound needs to bleed in order to help us grow.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Kairos is divine timing, the belief that everything happens the moment that it’s meant to, and not a moment before.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“This is not a free pass for either twin to behave badly, knowing that the other person will always be there. Instead, they acknowledge the inner feeling that we deserve to be loved as much on our worst days as on our best.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Twin flames have an intense physical attraction toward each other because of that similar energy level, because of that comfort, and because sex with our twin flame transcends what we thought sex could be—often described as the best of our lives. It’s not that it’s just deeply making love, but also that there is an intense passion that doesn’t occur with other romantic relationships, one that literally feels like an involuntary physical reaction every time we see them or even are just around them.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“While karmic love is responsible for clearing our karma from lifetimes past, our twin flame’s mission is to teach us the meaning and action of unconditional love.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Twin flames are highly connected spiritual relationships, the kind of love that we often refer to when we speak about meeting our other half or even The One. It is believed that back in the time when the universe was created, each of us had a twin flame with whom we shared a single force of energy. Over the course of several lifetimes, we were reincarnated in different bodies and roles, sometimes male or female, mother or child, siblings, or even friends, so that we could learn different lessons that would help each soul rise through the various levels of consciousness, until finally we are joined together.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Unfortunately, this means that the breakup for this connection is more drawn out than that of the soul mate. We will linger in that gray area of “are we together or not” for some time, still being intimate and on most mornings unsure of whether we are in love or hate with our partner.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“A soul tie is another way of describing this connection because we’re literally connected through lifetimes—not because we’re meant for each other, but because we hold each other’s key to becoming our higher selves.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“for that big final lesson, we’re going to have to get to the place where we can see the value of a relationship, of love, even if we’re betrayed in the end.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“The first lesson we have to acknowledge during this phase is that not every love is supposed to last. We have to let go of thinking that it’s in our control somehow, and if only we talked more, had sex more, gave more, then this relationship would magically turn into everything we’ve ever wanted.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“We all want to find our twin flame—but we have to learn that to get there, we have to clear a lot of karma, which potentially could be from having experienced lifetimes with this particular partner, hurting each other over and over again.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“No healthy relationship should have us compromise our worth or what we feel we deserve—and I’m not speaking of jewels or helicopter dates, but of decency, respect, and trust. And, especially, no relationship should ever make us put aside self-love in order to be able to love our partner.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“For me, the karma that was involved—the lesson I learned—was to realize my personal worth, and to never love another more than I love myself.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“With true twin flames, while there may be some of the same karmic passion in the beginning, there will never be unhealthy behaviors such as codependency and narcissism. It will never translate to a decade of being the other woman or being cheated on simply because the twin flame is about a connection that is only possible once all other karma has been cleared.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“One of the problems in identifying our karmic love is that we can mistake it for our twin flame. This is known as the “false twin flame” phenomenon. This is the one that we wish was right, the one where the love feels so unbelievably deep, we can’t stay away. We tell ourselves this is The One instead of seeing the reality—addiction to the love bomb.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Our karmic relationships are addictive, and while the love bombing is a big part of that—so is the sex.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“ONCE WE’VE LEARNED THE LESSON, WE NO LONGER NEED THE TEACHER”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Our karmic love is never supposed to last, no matter how many we have, no matter how long we’re together or if we even marry and have children. There’s too much left undone here. Its sole purpose is to be that mirror so that we can no longer ignore our own issues. This love comes into our lives and hurts us so deeply so that we stop projecting and blaming, and start being accountable for ourselves, our actions, and specifically our wounds.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“As long as we remain unhealed from the wounds we first started off with, we’re just going to keep bleeding on partners who never actually were the cause of that original pain. They didn’t abandon us as children, they didn’t make us feel invalidated or worthless as teens, they didn’t make us question ourselves, and they didn’t even lie to us. All that baggage was what we ourselves brought to the relationship.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“We can experience multiple karmic partners, not because that one great forever love isn’t out there, but because no matter how many times we say we’re ready for a healthy relationship, until we actually change our behavior—not his, ours—it will just be déjà vu all over again.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“It’s gut-wrenching, and honestly, it makes many of us feel like we’re going crazy because we don’t understand how this connection that felt so cosmically designed in the beginning could now leave us bleeding more profusely than ever before.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“This is the point when our karmic love comes along and rips the Band-Aid off our emotional wounds and triggers with no warning, no explanation. They just sit there pointing to it and saying, “You know you’re bleeding, right?”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“Our karmic love breaks us so that we are open enough to do our own work and let in our third love.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“What we have to realize is that this phase of karmic love will challenge us: Are we holding ourselves accountable to our own personal standards? Are we respecting ourselves, being honest with ourselves? In most cases, karmic passion brings us to this sorry state because we aren’t.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“anger is not a primary emotion. Anger is only the result of another feeling: hurt, disappointment, frustration at things not going the way we wanted, or even fear.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

“This is what happens when we don’t truly forgive someone. We end up holding their worst moments against them. We withhold forgiveness because that moment was too awful, too hurtful, or because we want them to suffer.”
― Kate Rose, You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame