The Score Takes Care of Itself Quotes

“MY FIVE DOS FOR GETTING BACK INTO THE GAME:
1. Do expect defeat. It’s a given when the stakes are high and the competition is working ferociously to beat you. If you’re surprised when it happens, you’re dreaming; dreamers don’t last long.
2. Do force yourself to stop looking backward and dwelling on the professional “train wreck” you have just been in. It’s mental quicksand.
3. Do allow yourself appropriate recovery—grieving—time. You’ve been knocked senseless; give yourself a little time to recuperate. A keyword here is “little.” Don’t let it drag on.
4. Do tell yourself, “I am going to stand and fight again,” with the knowledge that often when things are at their worst you’re closer than you can imagine to success. Our Super Bowl victory arrived less than sixteen months after my “train wreck” in Miami.
5. Do begin planning for your next serious encounter. The smallest steps—plans—move you forward on the road to recovery. Focus on the fix.

MY FIVE DON’TS:
1. Don’t ask, “Why me?”
2. Don’t expect sympathy.
3. Don’t bellyache.
4. Don’t keep accepting condolences.
5. Don’t blame others.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Like water, many decent individuals will seek lower ground if left to their own inclinations. In most cases you are the one who inspires and demands they go upward rather than settle for the comfort of doing what comes easily.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Someone will declare, “I am the leader!” and expect everyone to get in line and follow him or her to the gates of heaven or hell. My experience is that it doesn’t happen that way. Unless you’re a guard on a chain gang, others follow you based on the quality of your actions rather than the magnitude of your declarations.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“A good leader is always learning. The great leaders start learning young and continue until their last breath.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Champions behave like champions before they’re champions; they have a winning standard of performance before they are winners.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“For me the starting point for everything - before strategy, tactics, theories, managing, organizing, philosophy, methodology, talent, or experience - is work ethic.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“My Standard of Performance—the values and beliefs within it—guided everything I did in my work at San Francisco and are defined as follows: Exhibit a ferocious and intelligently applied work ethic directed at continual improvement; demonstrate respect for each person in the organization and the work he or she does; be deeply committed to learning and teaching, which means increasing my own expertise; be fair; demonstrate character; honor the direct connection between details and improvement, and relentlessly seek the latter; show self-control, especially where it counts most—under pressure; demonstrate and prize loyalty; use positive language and have a positive attitude; take pride in my effort as an entity separate from the result of that effort; be willing to go the extra distance for the organization; deal appropriately with victory and defeat, adulation and humiliation (don’t get crazy with victory nor dysfunctional with loss); promote internal communication that is both open and substantive (especially under stress); seek poise in myself and those I lead; put the team’s welfare and priorities ahead of my own; maintain an ongoing level of concentration and focus that is abnormally high; and make sacrifice and commitment the organization’s trademark.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Here’s a good question to write on a Post-it Note and put on your desk: “What assets do we have right now that we’re not taking advantage of?” Virgil”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“The culture precedes positive results. It doesn’t get tacked on as an afterthought on your way to the victory stand. Champions behave like champions before they’re champions; they have a winning standard of performance before they are winners.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“His leadership example of doing your job, treating others with respect, expecting people to do their jobs, and holding them accountable is a formula for success that will work in any good organization.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Do expect defeat. It’s a given when the stakes are high”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“If you’re growing a garden, you need to pull out the weeds, but flowers will die if all you do is pick weeds. They need sunshine and water. People are the same. They need criticism, but they also require positive and substantive language and information and true support to really blossom. If you’re perceived as a negative person—always picking, pulling, criticizing—you will simply get tuned out by those around you. Your influence, ability to teach, and opportunity to make progress will be diminished and eventually lost. When that happens, you become useless, a hindrance to progress. When your feedback is interpreted as a personal attack rather than a critique with positive intentions, you are going backward. Constructive criticism is a powerful instrument essential for improving performance. Positive support can be equally productive. Used together by a skilled leader they become the key to maximum results. Most of us seem to be more inclined to offer the negative. I don’t know why, but it’s easier to criticize than to compliment. Find the right mixture for optimum results.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Your competitor must never look at you across the field, conference table, or anywhere else and conclude, “I not only beat you, I broke your spirit.” The dance of the doomed tells them they’ve broken your spirit. That message can hurt you the next time around. And”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Not to get too clever, but “consistent effort is a consistent challenge.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“often you crash and burn.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“We all have in our mind inspiring examples of individuals who persevered beyond the point of reason and common sense and prevailed. We tend to ignore the more numerous examples of individuals who persisted and persisted and finally failed and took everybody down with them because they would not change course or quit. We ignore them because we never heard about them. Failure rarely garners the amount of attention that victory does.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“To make it all work, I “stretched” the field horizontally to create more room—used all available space from sideline to sideline—to avoid bunching our receivers and their defenders just beyond the line of scrimmage.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Unless you’ve experienced this type of emotional shock and the bleak interior landscape it creates, it’s hard to comprehend the impact. The memory never leaves you and acts as both a positive and negative force, spurring you to work harder and harder while also creating a fear inside that it might happen again. (For me, that fear eventually became more than I could handle.)”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“I’ve observed that if individuals who prevail in a highly competitive environment have any one thing in common besides success, it is failure—and their ability to overcome it. “Crash and burn” is part of it; so are recovery and reward.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“When you reach a large goal or finally get to the top, the distractions and new assumptions can be dizzying. First comes heightened confidence, followed quickly by overconfidence, arrogance, and a sense that “we’ve mastered it; we’ve figured it out; we’re golden.” But the gold can tarnish quickly. Mastery requires endless remastery. In fact, I don’t believe there is ever true mastery. It is a process, not a destination. That’s what few winners realize and explains to some degree why repeating is so difficult. Having triumphed, winners come to believe that the process of mastery is concluded and that they are its proud new owners.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“In planning for a successful future, the past can show you how to get there. Too often we avert our gaze when that past is unpleasant. We don’t want to go there again, even though it contains the road map to a bright future. How good are you at looking through the evidence from the past—especially the recent past? There’s a certain knack to it, but basically it requires a keen eye for analysis, a commonsense mind for parsing evidence that offers clues to why things went as they did—both good and bad. And, of course, it often requires a strong stomach, because what you’re rummaging through may include not only achievements but the remains of a very painful professional fiasco.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Unfortunately, too often we find comfort in what worked before—even when it stops working. We get stuck there and resist the new, the unfamiliar, the unconventional.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“They were locked into the past and unwittingly locking themselves out of the future. Leaders do this to themselves and their organizations all the time.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Exhibit a ferocious and intelligently applied work ethic directed at continual improvement;”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“During the ensuing fourteen years, the San Francisco 49ers won five Super Bowls. It happened only because at the moment of deepest despair I had the strength to stand and confront the future instead of wallowing in the past. Many can’t summon the strength; they can’t get up; their fight is over. Victory goes to another, a stronger competitor.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“When the inevitable setback, loss, failure, or defeat comes crashing down on you—losing a big sale, being passed over for a career-making promotion, even getting fired—allow yourself the “grieving time,” but then recognize that the road to recovery and victory lies in having the strength to get up off the mat and start planning your next move. This is how you must think if you want to win. Otherwise you have lost.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“happens everywhere all the time. Have you noticed, however, that great players and great companies don’t suddenly start hunching up, grimacing, and trying to “hit the ball harder” at a critical point? Rather, they’re in a mode, a zone in which they’re performing and depending on their “game,” which they’ve mastered over many months and years of intelligently directed hard work.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“passion, expertise, communication, and persistence are the four essentials of good teaching and learning,”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Leadership, at its best, is exactly that: teaching skills, attitudes, and goals (yes, goals are both defined and taught)”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership

“Communication is complex. It’s not just the King’s English. Body language, gender connection, age connection, role connection, affluence and wealth connection, receiving or taking directions, and the state of mind of one person or another are all elements in communicating with someone. It’s not just being able to talk back and forth. It’s recognizing when to say it, how to say it, when to listen, whom you’re talking with, how they feel, what you’re trying to get down to, how important the circumstance is, what the necessity is timewise, and how rapidly the decision must be made.”
― Bill Walsh, The Score Takes Care of Itself: My Philosophy of Leadership