Everybody, Always Quotes

“When joy is a habit, love is a reflex.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“Jesus talked to His friends a lot about how we should identify ourselves. He said it wouldn’t be what we said we believed or all the good we hoped to do someday. Nope, He said we would identify ourselves simply by how we loved people. It’s tempting to think there is more to it, but there’s not. Love isn’t something we fall into; love is some
one we become.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“we’re all rough drafts of the people we’re still becoming.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“Burning down others’ opinions doesn’t make us right. It makes us arsonists.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“No one is remembered for what they only planned to do.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“No one expects us to love them flawlessly, but we can love them fearlessly, furiously, and unreasonably.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“These people haven’t tried to save up love like they’re going to need it later; they know we’re rivers, not reservoirs.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“What is it that you don't think you can do? What do you think is too big for you? Or too scary, or too risky? Sometimes God whispers it, and sometimes, he shouts it. Whatever the volume, I bet he's always using the same three words with us: Be Not Afraid.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“We’re not held back by what we don’t have, but by what we don’t use.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“There’s a difference between good judgment and living in judgment.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“It’s given me a lot of comfort knowing we’re all rough drafts of the people we’re still becoming.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“You’ll be able to spot people who are becoming love because they want to build kingdoms, not castles. They fill their lives with people who don’t look like them or act like them or even believe the same things as them. They treat them with love and respect and are more eager to learn from them than presume they have something to teach.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“I think Jesus meant something different when He said “enemies.” He meant we should love the people we don’t understand. The ones we disagree with. The ones who are flat wrong about more than a couple of things. I have plenty of those people in my life, and my bet is you do too.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“We were born to be brave.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“We make loving people a lot more complicated than Jesus did. Every time I try to protect myself by telling somebody about one of my opinions, God whispers to me and asks about my heart. Why are you so afraid? Who are you trying to impress? Am I really so insecure that I surround myself only with people who agree with me? When people are flat wrong, why do I appoint myself the sheriff to straighten them out? Burning down others’ opinions doesn’t make us right. It makes us arsonists.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“I’ve spent my whole life avoiding the people Jesus spent His whole life engaging”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“Love isn’t something we fall into; love is someone we become.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“Jesus never said doing these things would be easy. He just said it would work.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“Sadly, whenever I make my opinions more important than the difficult people God made, I turn the wine back into water.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“God wants me to love the ones I don’t understand, to get to know their names. To invite them to do things with me. To go and find the ones everyone has shunned and turned away. To see them as my neighbors even if we are in totally different places. You’ll be able to spot people who are becoming love because they want to build kingdoms, not castles. They fill their lives with people who don’t look like them or act like them or even believe the same things as them. They treat them with love and respect and are more eager to learn from them than presume they have something to teach.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“That’s our job. It’s always been our job. We’re supposed to just love the people in front of us. We’re the ones who tell them who they are. We don’t need to spend as much time as we do telling people what we think about what they’re doing. Loving people doesn’t mean we need to control their conduct. There’s a big difference between the two. Loving people means caring without an agenda. As soon as we have an agenda, it’s not love anymore. It’s acting like you care to get someone to do what you want or what you think God wants them to do. Do less of that, and people will see a lot less of you and more of Jesus.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“there’s a big difference between liking Jesus and being like Him, and He said we would never be able to be like Him unless we loved our enemies.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“we’ll be remembered for our love. What I’ve learned following Jesus is we only really find our identities by engaging the people we’ve been avoiding. Jesus wrapped up this concept in three simple and seemingly impossible ideas for us to follow: love Him, love your neighbor, and love your enemies.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“There are plenty of people I don’t understand. I suppose some are trolls and some aren’t. God doesn’t see people the way I do, though. The ones I see as problems, God sees as sons and daughters, made in His image. The ones I see as difficult, He sees as delightfully different. The fact is, what skews my view of people who are sometimes hard to be around is that God is working on different things in their lives than He is working on in mine.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“If I’m only willing to love the people who are nice to me, the ones who see things the way I do, and avoid all the rest, it’s like reading every other page of the Bible and thinking I know what it says.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“We don't need a plan to do these things. We don't need to wait for just the right moment. We just need to show up, grab a parachute, and when it's time, jump out of our shoes after people the way Jesus jumped out of heaven to be with us. Sometimes, we make loving people a lot more complicated than Jesus did.”
― Bob Goff , Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“Jesus talked to His friends a lot about how we should identify ourselves. He said it wouldn’t be what we said we believed or all the good we hoped to do someday. Nope, He said we would identify ourselves simply by how we loved people. It’s tempting to think there is more to it, but there’s not. Love isn’t something we fall into; love is someone we become.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“But extravagant love often means coloring outside the lines and going beyond the norms.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“The people who creep us out aren’t obstacles to having faith; they’re opportunities to understand it.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People

“He said we would identify ourselves simply by how we loved people. It’s tempting to think there is more to it, but there’s not. Love isn’t something we fall into; love is someone we become.”
― Bob Goff, Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People