Pops Quotes

“Every work of art is one half of a secret handshake.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces

“You are born into a family and those are your people, and they know you and they love you, and if you are lucky they even on occasion manage to understand you. And that ought to be enough. But it is never enough. Abe had not been dressing up, styling himself, for all these years because he was trying to prove how different he was from everyone else. He did it in the hope of attracting the attention of somebody else—somewhere, someday—who was the same. He was not flying his freak flag; he was sending up a flare, hoping for rescue, for company in the solitude of his passion.

“You were with your people. You found them,” I said.

He nodded.

“That’s good,” I said. “You’re early.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces

“Books were hungry things, and if you stayed too long in any one place, they would consume everything and everyone around you.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces

“The handy thing about being a father is that the historical standard is so pitifully low.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces

“What I came to dislike about Little League that spring was not the regulation per se, or the fathers--whose consciousness had generally been raised at least a little bit--or the tedium, or the low quality of play, or the pain of watching my son strike out a lot. It was the way I got reminded, every game, that this was the world my children lived in: the world in which the wild watershed of childhood had been brought fully under control of the adult Corps of Engineers.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces

“At least he kept trying to express himself, his real self, as motley and inchoate for now as the outfit he was wearing. And maybe that was part of the purpose of middle school: to give you something to work against, to press upon, as you attempted to fashion a self from the lump of contradictory impulses and emotions and paradigms that your mind and your culture presented.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces

“You can write great books," the great man continued. "Or you can have kids. It's up to you."

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Writing was a practice. The more you wrote, the better a writer you became, and the more books you produced. Excellence plus productivity, that was the formula for sustained success, and time was the coefficient of both. Children, the great man said, were notorious thieves of time.

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Writers need to be irresponsible, ultimately, to everything but the writing, free of commitments to everything but the daily word count. Children, by contrast, needed stability, consistency, routine, and above all, commitment. In short, he was saying, children are the opposite of writing.”
― Michael Chabon, Pops: Fatherhood in Pieces