Conversation Casanova Quotes

“Breaking eye contact quickly (friendly) vs looking at her seductively (sexual) -“What do you like most in a guy?” (friendly) vs “What do you find sexiest in a guy?” (sexual)”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Don’t waste time waiting for the right moment. You won’t find it – you’ll always have an excuse in your head as to why it’s the wrong moment.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Your mindsets dictate your thoughts, your thoughts dictate your actions, and your actions dictate your results.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“-It’s your responsibility to make something happen with the girl -It’s your responsibility to lead the conversation in a positive way -And you’re responsible for the outcome of the interaction”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“You see, we don’t always control what happens to us. But we always control a) how we interpret what happens to us, and b) how we respond to what happens to us. Therefore, whether we consciously recognize it or not, we are always responsible for our experiences and our life.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Once your mindset changes, everything on the outside will change along with it.” -Steve Maraboli”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Hey…I know this is random… but I just saw you walking by… and you caught my eye…and I wanted to say hi… I’m Dave…”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Remember: Your mindsets dictate your thoughts, your thoughts dictate your actions, and your actions dictate your results.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

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― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“What are you passionate about? 2) What do you find sexiest in a guy? 3) What’s your dream job? 4) What’s one thing I wouldn’t guess about you? 5) If you could wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would it be? 6) What kind of things make you laugh the hardest? 7) What was your last big adventure? 8) What’s something you’ve always wanted to do? 9) What do you absolutely love to do? 10) Would you consider yourself a sexual person? 11) Have you ever had sex in a public place? 12) What’s your favorite place you’ve traveled to? 13) If your apartment were on fire, what 2 things would you save? 14) What kind of music do you listen to? 15) If you could go back to one time period in history, what would it be? 16) Do you cook? What’s your favorite meal? 17) What brought you to this city? 18) How did you get into what you’re doing now? 19) What’s your favorite movie of all time? 20) What’s your favorite book of all time?”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“But here’s the thing: many guys find it difficult to genuinely love women. This is due to a few reasons: Bitterness. They’ve been rejected or hurt in the past, and now they hold a grudge against women. They want to “get back” at women for all the pain they’ve caused. Inexperience. They haven’t dealt with women enough, and so they struggle to understand them. Stubbornness. They refuse to acknowledge that women are emotional creatures. They deal with problems and decisions differently they men do. Stubborn men get bent out of shape when women don’t act logically. Insecurity. They’re pursuing women to “complete” themselves or make themselves feel like they’re “okay”.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“For example, here are a few things you could try to learn in a new conversation: -Something she is passionate about -Why she decided to live in a particular city -What she likes (or dislikes) about her job -A place she’s traveled to – and how she felt about it -What kind of music she’s into -What her aspirations are -Something she’s excited about”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Try to learn 3 things about her.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Introduction. You introduce the characters/environment in the story, and hook in your listener. For example, “The music bumped and the ground shook below me. I looked around in awe. I had just stepped into my first nightclub in Asia, after nearly 30 hours of travel. And I was scared.” 2) Development. You share the characters’ main struggles and obstacles. For example, “It took me about six months and a few lucky breaks. But once I started making $2k a month, I pulled the trigger and bought my plane ticket in May of 2014. I was set to leave at the end of July. But a week after I bought my ticket, I met Natalie. She was the first girl in years that I truly connected with. The problem? I knew I’d have to leave her…” 3) Climax. This is the turning point in the story. For example, “And that’s when it hit me. ‘Holy fuck. What have I done?!’ I thought. I’d flown all the way across the world to fulfill some dream of adventure, travel, and entrepreneurship. But maybe that’s not what I wanted after all.” 4) Resolution. You wind the story down and wrap it up. It’s the “come-down” from the climax. For example, “I decided to give Vietnam a real try, even though it was scary. So I guess sometimes, you have to scare yourself a little bit. You have to destroy your life to let the next great thing happen. And that’s okay. Because you can build it back up better than you ever thought possible.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“It Should End With a Bang”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Should Be About Something She’s Interested In This is where baiting comes into play. If she asks you about a topic relevant to your story, tell it then – that’s when it will have the most impact. For example, if she asks you, “How did you end up moving to Vietnam?”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“It Should Showcase Your Attractive Qualities Remember the qualities we talked about in the last chapter? (Dominance, sociability, altruism, adventurousness, appreciation of beauty, and sense of humor.)”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Pausing for just a second or two here and there can be powerful.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“You can also make the story more interesting by involving her and pausing at the right times. So, how do you involve her? Ask her pointed questions throughout the story, so she feels like she’s a part of it. For example, “So I was at an improv show the other night – do you like improv? Well this was just about the funniest show I’ve been to. Maybe I’ll take you to one some time! Anyway, I was at this show and…”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“It’s a combination of your tonality, facial expressions, and mood at each moment of your story. You want her to feel like you felt at the time – not like “it’s already over and everything turned out okay.” Keep the sense of mystery alive.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Step #1: Understand the purpose of talking about yourself Step #2: Highlight sexy qualities about yourself Step #3: Bait her Step #4: Follow the proper etiquette.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Don’t paint yourself as “perfect”. Instead, poke some fun at your mistakes, and show that you’ve struggled to get to your successes despite a few mishaps along the way. It wasn’t all rainbows and unicorns.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“He started by talking about himself when he was younger and a goal that he had, but wasn’t sure how to accomplish. 2) He mentioned a few obstacles along his way to success. 3) He talked about how he began to finally see some success. 4) He talked about his ultimate success (getting published on bigger sites and growing his blog). This is the basic “hero story” format.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Average is boring. Women like men who succeed in the face of adversity, overcome obstacles, and have purpose.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“I love learning and improving. I feel like if you’re not stretching your comfort zone and feeling a little stupid some of the time, you’re not really living.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“When she asks what you do, you can say, “I love to lay down the moves on the salsa dance floor, but I also analyze businesses.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Baiting causes women to put effort into finding out who you are. It makes you seem A LOT more interesting, and even adds a bit of mystery.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“Adventurousness. Women love spontaneous men. They want the kind of guy who’s going to make them feel alive, challenge them, and excite them. Not the kind of guy they can easily predict.”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“So, how can you convey altruism in conversation? Here are some examples you could talk about: - A time where you helped somebody less fortunate - A time where you did some volunteer work - A time where you helped a friend accomplish something”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

“So, how can you convey sociability in conversation? Here are some examples you could talk about: - A time where you hung out with a group of friends and had fun - A time where you connected with someone you looked up to - A time where you introduced two groups of friends to each other”
― Dave Perrotta, Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro