Bodies in the Basement Quotes

“In real, adult relationships however, the “silent treatment” can be a vicious weapon when used with an undertone of intimidation or as a way to exert control, deliver insult, or imply the lack of worth of the other person. The message is, “Why should I even waste my breath on you?”
― Aubrey Cole, Bodies in the Basement: A Serial Story for Survivors of Abuse

“In real, adult relationships however, the “silent treatment” can be a vicious weapon when used with an undertone of intimidation or as a way to exert control, deliver insult, or imply the lack of worth of the other person. The message is, “Why should I even waste my breath on you?” To be clear, I’m not talking about learning to drop a subject and stop clashing over it, or walking away from an obviously damaging argument. I’m referring to the purposeful ignoring of or refusal to talk to your partner as a form of punishment.”
― Aubrey Cole, Bodies in the Basement: A Serial Story for Survivors of Abuse