Stalker Quotes

“The flyers could be helpful in case a neighbor catches the stalker around a victim’s home while they are away. Along with the flyer, a copy of a restraining order should be left with neighbors in the event that the stalker is near the home during an absence.  If you live in an apartment, the manager of the building should be notified. If they know, they may be able to take further safety precautions to help you and the other people in the building feel safer.  Same as the information above about giving a flyer to your neighbors, be sure that the people in your building do not give out any information about you. Also, if there are people in your building, make sure you request the verification of any unexpected deliveries or repair services such as TV repair, phone repair, appliance repair, or cable.”
― Max Mortimer, Stalker: How To Deal With Your Stalker Before It’s Too Late

“In past experiences, stalking victims have shown their friends and relatives any information about the stalker they could obtain. This could include a picture of the stalker, along with the model, make, and license plate number of the stalker’s vehicle. Some victims have even gone so far as to making a flyer to leave with friends, family, co-workers, and neighbors. This way, more people would be aware of the individual not only for the victim’s sake but in case these people becomes the next target of the stalker.”
― Max Mortimer, Stalker: How To Deal With Your Stalker Before It’s Too Late

“Sometimes, stalking victims feel the need for a friend or a relative to talk to the stalker about not bothering you anymore.  The issue here is that, a stalker normally feeds off the attention whether it comes from you or someone close to you. This will not stop them from stalking you but rather fuel the fire even further.”
― Max Mortimer, Stalker: How To Deal With Your Stalker Before It’s Too Late

“Resentful Stalker Unlike a rejected stalker, a resentful stalker is motivated completely by revenge. They are completely past the point of wanting to reconcile with their victim, making them one of the most dangerous types of stalkers. The threat level is extremely high as they only wish to distress and frighten their survivor.  Driven entirely by revenge and passion against someone who has upset them can cause serious harm to both the stalker and the victim. Most of the time, a stalker will see their victim as someone who has humiliated or oppressed them in the past, therefore making them believe that the victim deserves to be harmed by an action to strike back against their oppressor. A rejected stalker is normally irrationally paranoid. The behavior reflects their feelings of injustice and humiliation. The individuals primary focus relies on a compulsive relieving of the pain, making them seek revenge on their survivor. This may be because the individual does not believe that they are in the wrong. In their mind, they are the ones that are the victims of the situation. The stalker’s usual target is someone that they know but depending on the severity of their disorder, they can stalk a complete stranger as well.  If you are aware of a resentful stalker, it is important to take immediate action. According to studies, the longer the stalking continues, the less likely legal actions will be effective. Normally, if a stalker is confronted with legal sanctions in the early stages, they will leave their victims alone. Be aware of behavior that seems to be overly aggressive and revengeful. Even if you did happen to mistreat an individual, this should never result in harm or death.  Often times, a resentful stalker will be set off by an action that wouldn’t effect a normal individual. Remember that these people are usually mentally ill and have extreme personality disorders. Your best bet is to play safer if you have the slightest inkling of an issue. In the sections below, you will learn how to spot a stalker and what to do about them.  Additional Violent Stalker Characteristics As stated earlier, a stalker’s threat level can vary depending on the individual.”
― Max Mortimer, Stalker: How To Deal With Your Stalker Before It’s Too Late