The New Rules of Marriage Quotes

“Self-esteem is your capacity to recognize your worth and value, despite your human flaws and weaknesses. Your value as a person isn't earned; it isn't conditional; it can't be added to or subtracted from. Your essential worth is neither greater nor lesser than that of any other human being. It can't be. Self-esteem is about being, not doing. You have worth simply because you're alive.”
― Terrence Real, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work

“Use “and,” never “but.” “But” cancels out whatever came before it. “And” is roomy enough for all of your many feelings.”
― Terrence Real, The New Rules of Marriage