More Confessions of a Narcissist Quotes

“I am one of the few educating the world about how my kind and me operate so they understand what we do. They can avoid us or embrace us but at least they can make an informed decision whilst we get on with the heavy work.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“Do you believe you are a narcissist?” “Yes.” “Why?” “I have been called it many times, by people around me and health professionals. I am an educated man and I have read much of the literature and I have to accept that the way I think and act is in accordance with the definitions set out to describe a narcissist.” “Interesting. So, you accept what you are?”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“You con yourself, for fear of losing my love, that my motivation is predicated on a real interest in caring about you. That is completely wrong. It is a tool of control. Listen out for it and you will soon notice how often it is used against you.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“The reality is that from an early age we were watching, scrutinising, logging and mimicking in order to apply the best way of manipulating you.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“The second purpose of putting you on the back foot is absolving myself of any responsibility for what I have done. I have spent an afternoon with another woman so I shall accuse you of infidelity in order to make me feel better. I project my shortcomings on to you in an attempt to shake off any accountability for them. I do not want to contemplate what I have done. I would much rather shift the blame on to you instead.  How does this behaviour look? I will begin with my vague accusation.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“I take the view that since I do these things everyone else does so as well.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“Your isolation was sealed the moment you listened to me. You are so alone nobody can hear you scream”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“I may make you feel wanted and special but all I am doing is moving you. I am transporting you from loneliness in the real world to isolated splendour in my false reality. Once I have positioned you, there I shall busy myself cutting you off from family, friends and acquaintances.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist

“By reading my various observations and admissions, you will be able to better understand why I do as I do. This is priceless knowledge. You may wish to use this to remind you never to return to the narcissist who tore your life apart. The no nonsense style of delivery that I utilise may seem harsh but you already know what it is like to be on the receiving end of my kind and mine’s behaviour. These writings will serve as a useful warning never to go back. You may also wish to use the material to educate others; that can only be a good thing. Too many people have no idea about my kind and me until it is far too late. I am content for you to spread the word.”
― H G Tudor, More Confessions of a Narcissist