21 Traps You Need to Avoid in Dating & Relationships Quotes

“assertive, and sexy way, and state what’s important to you. Say, “Honey, it’s important to me that you _________.” Try to avoid saying, “Honey can you please _________” or “Honey why don’t you ever___________.” That would give him the power. You are not asking for his majesty’s approval. Simply state your instructions to him in a sexy but assertive way. It will do wonders, as you’ll see.”
― Brian Keephimattracted, 21 Traps You Need to Avoid in Dating & Relationships

“When someone with a borderline personality disorder feels bad -- and they can feel bad for any reason under the sun -- they feel so bad they want to explode. If you’re standing close and say anything at all that gives them a bad feeling on top of what they’re already experiencing, explode they will and the entire blast will be directed at you.   The most important takeaway is that it is not your fault. People with a borderline personality disorder have had some really negative experiences growing up, causing their personalities to be malformed. This is a true disorder, a true mental disease. People with this disorder will behave in ways that make absolutely no sense since their inner worlds are totally different than ours.   It’s not up to you to fix it. You cannot fix it.    The narcissist suffers from a similar disorder. He believes he is the center of the universe. What you might not know, however, is that his behavior stems from a well-covered fear of not being enough, of not being liked. A narcissist will manipulate you because he wants to feel important. Everything has to be his way; other people have to live up to his expectations. This guy will manipulate you and might”
― Brian Keephimattracted, 21 Traps You Need to Avoid in Dating & Relationships

“The perfect man does not exist. But there are plenty of men out there whose actions are fully compatible with the words they are using.”
― Brian Keephimattracted, 21 Traps You Need to Avoid in Dating & Relationships

“That said, when you want him to change a small behavior, use the high-value-woman approach. Talk to him in a sweet,”
― Brian Keephimattracted, 21 Traps You Need to Avoid in Dating & Relationships

“bully you because that’s his way of feeling loved and important. This is a sick way of filling his needs.”
― Brian Keephimattracted, 21 Traps You Need to Avoid in Dating & Relationships