Lust, Men, and Meth Quotes

“Methamphetamine is, in many ways, the perfect drug for gay men. In addition to initially heightening sexual experiences, it artificially neutralizes many concerns gay men have about themselves and their place in the community. Where there is little confidence, meth creates feelings of strength and power. Where there is fear, it creates assertiveness and even aggression. Where there is a feeling of unworthiness, it creates a sense of narcissism that is, in itself, mood-altering. Where there is a feeling of not belonging, it creates connection without concern for age, physique, or wealth. Where there is an internalized belief, based on a lifetime of messages that gay sex is wrong and shameful, it creates an exhilarating thrill at flaunting taboos and celebrating gay sexuality.”
― David M. Fawcett, Lust, Men, and Meth: A Gay Man's Guide to Sex and Recovery

“Cravings can be successfully managed by remembering that the cue is like a wave washing over one’s entire body. It has a forward motion and will, ultimately, crest and pass. At its height the urge to use seems unbearable, but by practicing cognitive techniques and applying relapse prevention tools one can survive the craving.”
― David M. Fawcett, Lust, Men, and Meth: A Gay Man's Guide to Sex and Recovery