Understanding Men Quotes

“because, again, your outer world is just a reflection of who you are on the inside.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“Most men with a purpose are focused on money. This is because a mature man knows that money gives him choices, freedom, and peace of mind. Also, money is one of the only things in the world that’s a true measurement of success.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“A mature man chooses to not cheat. He’s disciplined with his desires. Most men don’t have the courage to be in a relationship and be open about their desires, especially their sexual desires, because it takes a very mature woman to be open to hearing that the man she’s with has desire for other women. That, suddenly, because a man is in a relationship, he’s supposed to just let go of his built in “attraction mechanism.” The same goes for women. When they enter into a relationship, they don’t stop being attracted to other men, but a mature woman doesn’t act on her desires.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“The reason some — immature — men cheat is because they get this desire to be with other women, and they try to handle their desires by suppressing them. This can create guilt and shame, so they act on their desires and cheat, even though they might care about the woman they’re in a relationship with.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“By communicating your needs with a man, you need to make a “request.” This gives him freedom from his feelings. When you make a request, you allow the man to want to fix the problem; there’s no more mystery to the problem. Men just want to know how they can make you happy.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“Only immature men hide their desires and act out on them, despite what they told the person they’re with.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“Mature men can be comfortable when vulnerable. Authentic. Decisiveness. Ready for love.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“Criticism is decay in a relationship. The more you criticize your partner, the more it’s going to hurt your sex life in the long-run.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“A lot of women don't understand that, for a man to approach a woman, is a deeply-rooted pit-like fear in their stomach. Try to give off a “warm vibe.” That way, men will have more courage to approach you.   Appreciate and reward a good man   Freedom is number one.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“– THE 6 WAYS TO COMMUNICATE YOUR FEELINGS –   Relationship-Attractors:   Men want to be understood, just as you do. If you can show a man that you get him, then he’ll take more of an initiative to understand you.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“To-do list focused: When you’re more focused on getting things done in your life — kids, chores, career — and not tending to the sexual needs of your man, there’s going to be some loss of attraction.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“It’s not always possible to have a man reveal his history to you, but if you are able to uncover that the man you’re with has never had the type of relationship you want, you may just have to let him go and find another man who has had the type of relationship you want. It takes a mature woman to realize that this isn’t a man for her, and she needs to go somewhere else to get her needs met.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“The more you approach a man with your needs, the more he’s going to feel overwhelmed and the more he’s going to withdrawal. What a pain.   If you don’t think a man listens to you, you need to inspire him to listen. A mature woman doesn’t complain or put the blame on others when she doesn’t get what she wants. If you truly want your needs met, you’ll find a mature way to get those needs met. Not by blaming, not by complaining, and not by starting arguments.   On the flip side, a mature man will inspire a great woman to want to be in a relationship with him.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“If you’re a mature woman, you know you have sexual desires about other men you see. But a mature woman doesn’t act on them if she’s in a relationship, whereas an immature woman does.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book

“You might find that when you’re truly feeling great about yourself, it has absolutely nothing to do with anyone, but yourself. It’s something you’ve accomplished or how you feel about yourself. Some women just want to be heard. A simple-sincere compliment.”
― Alex Altman, Understanding Men: Know What He's Really Thinking, Show Him You're The One, Why Men Pull Away, Why He's Afraid To Commit & How To Read Him Like A Book