Aphorisms on Love and Hate Quotes

“A promise to love someone forever, then, means, 'As long as I love you I will render unto you the actions of love; if I no longer love you, you will continue to receive the same actions from me, if for other motives.' Thus the illusion remains in the minds of one's fellow men that the love is unchanged and still the same.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Life consists of rare, isolated moments of the greatest significance, and of innumerable many intervals, during which at best the silhouettes of those moments hover about us.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“It is much more agreeable to offend and later ask forgiveness than to be offended and grant forgiveness. The one who does the former demonstrates his power and then his goodness. The other, if he does not want to be thought inhuman, must forgive; because of this coercion, pleasure in the other's humiliation is slight.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“One must have a good memory to be able to keep the promises one has given. One must have strong powers of imagination to be able to have pity. So closely is morality bound to the quality of the intellect.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Marriage as a long conversation. When entering a marriage, one should ask the question: do you think you will be able to have good conversations with this woman right into old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory, but most of the time in interaction is spent in conversation.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“In many people, incidentally, the gift of having good friends is much greater than the gift of being a good friend.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“If someone wants to seem to be something, stubbornly and for a long time, he eventually finds it hard to be anything else. The profession of almost every man, even the artist, begins with hypocrisy, as he imitates from the outside, copies what is effective.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Who suffers more? After a personal disagreement and quarrel between a woman and a man, the one party suffers most at the thought of having hurt the other; while that other party suffers most at the thought of not having hurt the first enough; for which reason it tries by tears, sobs, and contorted features, to weigh down the other person’s heart, even afterwards”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“There will be but few people, who, when at a loss for topics of conversation, will not reveal the more secret affairs of their friends.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“One does not attack a person merely to hurt and conquer him, but perhaps merely to become conscious of one's own strength.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Too close. If we live in too close proximity to a person, it is as if we kept touching a good etching with our bare fingers; one day we have poor, dirty paper in our hands and nothing more. a human being's soul is likewise worn down by continual touching; at least it finally appears that way to us - we never see its original design and beauty again.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“That the other suffers must be learned; and it can never be learned completely.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Only the boldest Utopians would dream of the economy of kindness.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Short-sighted people are amorous. Sometimes just a stronger pair of glasses will cure an amorous man; and if someone had the power to imagine a face or form twenty years older, he might go through life quite undisturbed.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“If someone wants to seem to be something, stubbornly and for a long time, he eventually finds it hard to be anything else.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Seriousness in play. At sunset in Genoa, I heard from a tower a long chiming of bells: it kept on and on, and over the noise of the backstreets, as if insatiable for itself, it rang out into the evening sky and the sea air, so terrible and so childish at the same time, so melancholy. Then I thought of Plato's words and felt them suddenly in my heart: all in all, nothing human is worth taking very seriously; nevertheless...”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“One can promise actions, but not feelings, for the latter are involuntary.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Observe how children weep and cry, so that they will be pitied, how they wait for the moment when their condition will be noticed, Or live among the ill and depressed, and question whether their eloquent laments and whimpering, the spectacle of their misfortune, is not basically aimed at hurting those present. The pity that the spectators then express consoles the weak and suffering, inasmuch as they see that, despite all their weakness, they still have at least one power: the power to hurt.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Each tradition grows more venerable the farther its origin lies in the past, the more it is forgotten; the respect paid to the tradition accumulates from generation to generation; finally the origin becomes sacred and awakens awe.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“To have thoughts of revenge and execute them means to be struck with a violent - but temporary - fever. But to have thoughts of revenge without the strength or courage to execute them means to endure a chronic suffering, a poisoning of body and soul.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Love as a device. Whoever wants really to get to know something new (be it a person, an event, or a book) does well to take up this new thing with all possible love, to avert his eye quickly from, even to forget, everything about it that he finds inimical, objectionable, or false. So, for example, we give the author of a book the greatest possible head start, and, as if at a race, virtually yearn with a pounding heart for him to reach his goal. By doing this, we penetrate into the heart of the new thing, into its motive center: and this is what it means to get to know it. Once we have got that far, reason then sets its limits; that overestimation, that occasional unhinging of the critical pendulum, was just a device to entice the soul of a matter out into the open.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“The mother gives the child what she takes from herself: sleep, the best food, in some instances even her health, her wealth.
Are all these really selfless states, however? Are these acts of morality miracles because they are, to use Schopenhauer's phrase, 'impossible and yet real'? Isn't it clear that, in all these cases, man is loving something of himself, a thought, a longing, an offspring, more than something else of himself; that he is thus dividing up his being and sacrificing one part for the other?”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“A good author, who really cares about his subject, wishes that someone would come and destroy him by representing the same subject more clearly and by answering every last question contained in it. The girl in love wishes that she might prove the devoted faithfulness of her love through her lover's faithlessness. The soldier wishes that he might fall on the battlefield for his victorious fatherland, for in the victory of his fatherland his greatest desire is also victorious. The mother gives the child what she takes from herself: sleep, the best food, in some instances even her health, her wealth.

Are these really selfless states, however? [...] Isn't it clear that, in all these cases, man is loving something of himself, a thought, a longing, an offspring, more than something else of himself; that he is thus dividing up his being and sacrificing one part for the other? Is it something essentially different when a pigheaded man says, 'I would rather be shot at once than move an inch to get out of that man's way'? [...]

In morality, man treats himself not as an 'individuum', but as a 'dividuum'.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“The accepted hierarchy of the good, based on how a low, higher, or a most high egoism desires that thing or the other, decides today about morality or immorality. To prefer a low good (sensual pleasure, for example) to one esteemed higher (health, for example) is taken for immoral, likewise to prefer comfort to freedom. The hierarchy of the good, however, is not fixed and identical at all times. If someone prefers revenge to justice, he is moral by the standard of an earlier culture, yet by the standard of the present culture he is immoral. 'Immoral' then indicates that someone has not felt, or not felt strongly enough, the higher, finer, more spiritual motives which the new culture of the time has brought with it. It indicates a backward nature, but only in degree.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“There is much more happiness to be found in the world then dim eyes can see, if one calculates correctly and does not forget all those moments of ease which are so plentiful in every day of every human life, even the most oppressed”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Cruelty to animals, by children and Italians, stamps from ignorance”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“It is probable that even his love of men will be cautious and somewhat shortwinded, for he wants to engage himself with the world of inclination and blindness only as far as is necessary for the sake of knowledge.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“But from time to time he must get a Sunday of freedom, or else he will not endure life.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“Such a spirit will be happy to take only the corner of an experience; he does not love things in the whole breadth and prolixity of their folds; for he does not want to get wrapped up in them.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate

“One does habitual things more easily, skillfully, gladly; one feel a pleasure at them, knowing from experience that the habit has stood the test and is useful.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Aphorisms on Love and Hate