Wanting to Want Quotes

“Interestingly, when you practice feeling gratitude toward your partner, you start to notice more positive aspects of both the person and the relationship.[10] In this way, gratitude counteracts unrealistic expectations and can strengthen loving feelings toward them.”
― Madeleine Castellanos, Wanting to Want: What Kills Your Sex Life and How to Keep It Alive

“Porn is an exaggeration of reality that plays on fantasy. It cannot include the complexities and nuances of human interactions around and during sex. It makes sex simplistic and straightforward, which it rarely ever is.”
― Madeleine Castellanos, Wanting to Want: What Kills Your Sex Life and How to Keep It Alive

“I can tell you that the biggest factors affecting your sex life come from within.”
― Madeleine Castellanos, Wanting to Want: What Kills Your Sex Life and How to Keep It Alive

“Performance anxiety in the bedroom comes in the form of erectile dysfunction, difficulty lubricating, or even difficulty reaching orgasm.”
― Madeleine Castellanos, Wanting to Want: What Kills Your Sex Life and How to Keep It Alive