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“If the stuff you own is not helping you create the life you want, then let it go.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“What I know for sure is that when you declutter – whether it’s on your home, your head, or your heart – it is astounding what will flow into that space that will enrich you, your life, and your family.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Maligant items don't have to be reminders of bad times, like a breakup or a health crisis. They can bring back memories of loved ones or high points in your life. But if these memories leave you feeling sad or feeling that your life isn't as good now, then the objects are causing you mental and emotional harm and have no place in your home. ...The key to enjoying happiness and good health in a warm, welcoming home is to live IN THE PRESENT MOMENT surrounded by items that you cherish and that have meaning for you and your family. If too much of your time is spent replaying your greatest hits or struggling with old pain, you're not making new memories of your present life.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Experts have called behaviorial economists have noted an issue they call the endowment effect, Dr.Tolin says. Merely owning an item causes you to exaggerate its value, or "endow" it with more worth..... But the endowment effect can make even insignificant items feel more important to you.--pg17 Even when people don't talk about feeling responsible for an item and they don't fell like the item is too important to get rid of because it's THEIRS - and that's all there is to it. --p18”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“As I approach retirement, I’m thinking about downsizing to a smaller home. I have all the artwork and toys and books that belonged to my kids. I’ve kept this stuff for them all these years, but they don’t want it. What do I do with it?” Often, we exchange a long look, and tears spring to their eyes. This is not a casual moment in their lives. The answer has great importance to them right now. Yet they’re letting a near-total stranger make the decision. My answer is frequently the same: “If the stuff you own is not helping you create the life you want, then let it go.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Even if you exercise every day, sitting around too much can still be harmful to your health and your waistline. Researchers noticed this while tracking a group of more than 4,000 Australian adults who exercised for the often-recommended 150 minutes per week. Even though they were physically active for 30 minutes on most days, as their time in front of the TV went up, so did their waist size and blood pressure. In women, more television time was also linked to potentially harmful changes in their cholesterol.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“I have never believed that striving for perfection is a commendable habit. It just sets you up to fail before you even begin. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve seen a wish for perfection totally paralyze a person who dwells on the idea that “If I can’t do it perfectly, I can’t do it at all.” “Good enough” is a target that’s, well, good enough. Having a welcoming, comfortable home is a wonderful thing, even if you have a little clutter here and there. It says that your home is loved and lived in. When you reach “good enough,” relax and enjoy the view.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Now’s the time to get rid of your first batch of malignant clutter. If you simply must have a reminder that this stuff was part of your life, take a picture of it, then tuck away the physical photo in a desk or stick the digital version deep into the belly of your computer. It’s time to give this clutter to the world outside your home.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“For each piece of malignant clutter, ask yourself: ​How did this get here? ​What power does this item have over me? ​Is this item helping me create the vision I have for the space? ​Is this item serving any purpose or helping me in some positive way? ​What feelings linked to this object have kept me from throwing it out? ​How would I feel if this item disappeared on its own right now? ​Could this item that’s a source of pain or disappointment to me become a wonderful addition to someone else’s life?”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Look around your house and find an item you’ve tried to discard before but just couldn’t. Examine it and think about letting it go. What other thoughts arise? Does your mind struggle to stop you from getting rid of this item? Remember: You really don’t have to obey your mind’s command to hang on to it.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Our lives may take place over decades. But they’re made of one long string of present moments like these. Of course, not all of these moments are this memorable, nor do they have to be. But they’re all equally real. You’re having a present moment right now. Now you’re having another one.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Creating a landfill in your home does not mean that you’re saving the environment. You just moved the garbage.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Every product you buy comes with a corresponding promise that you invest in. Your heart is set on attaining both. But while you’ll definitely come home with the object in your hands, you may or may not get the promise you see in your daydreams. Always look beyond the product to understand what’s really motivating your purchases.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“If your house is an overstuffed mess, I’ve learned that more often than not, it’s a warning sign that you have some type of trouble—large or small—in your mental and emotional well-being. In turn, a chaotic home that leaves little room for you and the other people inside can threaten your mental and physical health.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“You are important enough to invest the time and energy needed for the change you want. Commit to becoming the person you wish to be and carve out the time for what needs to be done!”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“If a gift has come to you wrapped in obligations and tied tightly with a ribbon of guilt, then it’s not really a gift at all. It’s a manipulation. A gift should be something freely given that enhances your life and reminds you lovingly of the giver. If it’s not, you simply should not give it a place in your home.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“By dealing with malignant clutter, you remove hurdles that are keeping you from your best life.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Your first step in decluttering them is to ask yourself “How do I want these horizontal surfaces to make my life easier?” (Rather than “What do I want to put here?”)”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“These cluttered surfaces become a highly visible contributor to household messiness. That creates two problems: ​When these areas are cluttered, your home is cluttered. ​When items pile up on these spaces, you can’t use them for their intended purpose. So a fundamental rule in home organization is that you have to keep flat surfaces clear and uncluttered. This will immediately create a more open and welcoming space.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Even if it’s only you being hard on yourself, part of your brain will react as if someone else is physically attacking you. Your fight-or-flight mechanism will kick in, your heart rate may rise, and you may feel jittery and queasy. But since you can’t flee yourself, there’s nowhere safe to retreat. “You become anxious and depressed,” Dr. Neff says, “and both of those are highly linked to self-criticism. It kind of undermines your faith in yourself. It’s like pulling the rug out from underneath you, and it ends up making it harder to be motivated to make a change.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“The present moment is when everything in your life happens. It’s the only real time you ever have. But we miss too many of these moments”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“​Observe the things your mind is telling you, without immediately obeying its commands or spending time arguing with it. ​Recognize when your mind is viewing the world as a darker, scarier place than it really is. ​Stop confusing the memories attached to your household items with the items themselves. ​Stop envisioning catastrophe in your future. ​Celebrate your successes rather than focusing on your shortcomings.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“The things you own should help you create the home and the life you want. The key to enjoying happiness and good health in a warm, welcoming home is to live in the present moment surrounded by items that you cherish and that have meaning for you and your family”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“Our homes become like photo albums of the past. But these “photos” aren’t images that take up little space in a photo album or zero physical space on a computer. They’re items of furniture and wood carvings and cars and blankets and clothes. These memory objects can take up lots of room in your home. This is space you can’t fill with useful, functional items or new memory-associated items.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“There are a few downsides to attaching memories to possessions. Often people feel that if they part with an object, they’ll lose the memory attached to it, along with a special moment in their life. Or that a person now only living on in their memory would be forgotten completely and disappear forever.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“We tend to connect our memories of the important moments in our lives, the places where we lived, and the people we loved to objects. Seeing these things allows us to replay and refresh those memories.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“You think a thing has more value simply because it belongs to you. Experts called behavioral economists have noted an issue they call the endowment effect, Dr. Tolin says. Merely owning an item causes you to exaggerate its value, or “endow” it with more worth.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“A gift should be something freely given that enhances your life and reminds you lovingly of the giver. If it’s not, you simply should not give it a place in your home.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down
“People have all sorts of reasons for saving things. Sometimes it’s because of the potential for future usefulness, or perhaps you don’t want to be wasteful. Sometimes people are emotionally attached to an object and will feel responsible for it.” All these reasons for saving—including that sense of “I wouldn’t want anything bad to happen to the object” or “If I’m going to get rid of it, I want to know that it’s going to a good home”—are actually normal ways to feel about objects, she says. But how strongly you feel this way can make the difference between hoarding disorder and customary reasons for saving. It can also make the difference between a neat, streamlined home and a place that’s chaotic and full of clutter.”
Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down

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