Choosing Clarity Quotes

“I officially give myself permission to be a work in progress. I do not have to be perfect to have absolute value. I am a student in the classroom of life and I am right on track in my personal process of becoming.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: No one can see your value unless you believe it first.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“Author C. S. Lewis wrote a beautiful and accurate definition of humility: “Humility is not thinking less of yourself… it is thinking of yourself less.” ”It is about feeling safe so you can focus on other people. It is not about being in fear and seeing yourself as worthless!”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“wasn’t him who thought he was worthless; it was that little demon on this shoulder. The little demon was a smart one, though. It used all the horrible things that were said to him over the years against him. But he could override it. He had the power to say “Thank you for your input but I’m not going there anymore. I know my real value!”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“I own the responsibility for determining my own value. I do not expect anyone else to make me feel valued and important. That must come from inside me. Once I know my value is set and absolute, I can accept love and validation from others, and believe it.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“I am an amazing, irreplaceable, infinitely valuable child of God. My value comes from that fact alone. My value is absolute. This means nothing I do, nothing anyone thinks about me, and no situation, mistake, or experience can change it. My value is not affected by what I look like, how much money I make, or what I do. My value was set by God and does not change. Mistakes I make and difficult situations I experience are just locations on my journey.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: Choose to trust these two critical truths that are the opposites of the two core fears: 1) Your value is infinite and absolute because life is a classroom. 2) Every experience is your perfect classroom journey.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“The first step on the path to fearlessness is to embrace two critical principles of truth that are the opposites of the two core fears (the fear of failure and the fear of loss). If you practice trusting these two truths you can eliminate fear in any situation. The first is to trust that your value isn’t on the line because life is a classroom, not a test. The second is to trust that your journey is the perfect classroom journey for you; that anything you lose, you are meant to lose; and that each experience serves you no matter what happens.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“You are afraid you aren’t good enough, when your value is infinite and absolute and not on the line. You are afraid of loss and not getting the life you wanted, when your journey is always the perfect classroom journey for you. In reality there is no failure and there is no loss (except the losses you are meant to experience so that you can grow).”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“You get to decide how you will esteem yourself, but if you don’t consciously choose to value yourself correctly (for your infinite and absolute value), your subconscious mind will automatically choose an inaccurate, fear-based policy that will leave you feeling worthless.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: You cannot be diminished by what other people think of you. Your value is infinite and absolute. It does not change. What other people think of you is irrelevant.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: Your value does not come from what you look like, what you experience, or what you do. It comes from your love and the fact that you are a divine, irreplaceable child of God.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: You are the one responsible for your self-esteem. You are the one who must choose to value yourself accurately.-”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“You have to choose to see yourself accurately, see life as a classroom, and commit to the policy that you have the same value no matter how you perform. It is time to claim the power to do this once and for all.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: Low self-esteem (the fear that you aren’t good enough) is the root cause of most problems.-’ Your self-esteem is also a one-person job.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: You can choose to see your journey as a classroom without the fear of failure. Or you can choose to live in fear and see it as a test. It’s up to you.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: A fear-based philosophy about life (seeing life as a testing center) can prevent you from seeing yourself and situations accurately.- A fear of failing skews your perspective and distracts you from learning and loving.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: Your life is a perfect and divine process of learning and growth. You are safe in this process because the objective is for your good. Every situation in your life is there to serve you in some way.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“And an attitude of trust and seeing your personal trials as a perfect part of your process of becoming will always serve you, especially since the only other option is fear, bitterness, and anger, and those emotions don’t serve you at all.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“minute. Even though life is difficult as times, you must understand that these challenges are not here to beat you, defeat you, or squash you like a bug. Life”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: The purpose and point of this life is to learn and love – and it may be more specifically to learn to love.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“Start watching out for any thoughts or feelings that are immature, angry, inaccurate, selfish, weak, scared, dramatic, or in any way based in fear. In those moments, start to practice consciously choosing love for yourself and others instead.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“claritypoint: If you don’t consciously choose trust and love in each moment, your subconscious policies will choose for you, and they usually choose fear.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“Remember, if you don’t consciously choose trust and love, you are unconsciously choosing fear.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“You can experience this moment in fear, focused on yourself, or you can experience it in trust and love. It’s up to you. BUT (and this is a big but), if you don’t consciously choose to experience this moment in trust and love, your subconscious mind will choose for you, and it will probably choose fear, since fear is probably your autopilot. (This is a key principle so I am repeating it often on purpose.)”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“Voice of Fear Voice of Truth ego fear and doubt foggy all about me must earn value insecure I’m not good enough lack – fear of loss criticism sees others as different from you focused on getting not accurate spirit trust and love clarity love for self and others value is infinite confident my value is absolute abundance - trust forgiveness sees others as the same as you focused on wholeness truth”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity

“F.E.A.R. is False Evidence Appearing Real. If you step back and clean off your lens, you will see that nothing fear says is accurate.”
― Kimberly Giles, Choosing Clarity