Divorcing a Narcissist Quotes

“They will often imagine non-existent criticism and will respond by shutting down and sulking or acting out in a rage. Any perceived attack or criticism of the narcissist is not dealt with in a healthy, normal way.  In his mind, you are either with him or against him and there is no gray area.”
― Tina Swithin, Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield

“I think narcissists look for people who shine very brightly. They look for a trophy. They see that as a source of power, validation for who they think they are. Yet once they have the "prize" they are so threatened by them or so afraid of losing them, that once the "honeymoon is over" think they must destroy them to fulfill and protect their own ego.”
― Tina Swithin, Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield

“From the beginning and in true narcissistic fashion, Seth was attracted to my free spirit and trusting nature. I was carefree and fun. He was socially awkward and boring. He literally fed off of my energy and emotions because he was incapable of his own.”
― Tina Swithin, Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield