Be Honest—You're Not That Into Him Either Quotes

“I came to the realization that I needed to become my best self in order to attract the kind of guy I would want to marry. If I wanted someone truly fabulous, I had better become truly fabulous first.”
― Ian Kerner, Be Honest—You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve

“Imagine going through years of your life with the gut feeling that none of it really matters yet, that it will start at some point in the future, and that the present doesn't really count. Does this feeling seem familiar? Have you ever told yourself that everything will ultimately fall into place once you [fill in the blank]? Who wouldn't wind up numbed to real hope and possibility after exerting so much energy for stuff that really doesn't matter?”
― Ian Kerner, Be Honest—You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve

“What that means is you’re no longer looking for a protector or a provider but a partner on equal footing.”
― Ian Kerner, Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve – A Sex Therapist's Guide to Modern Hookups and Dating

“As long as you’re living in the meantime, you’ll never really know what you’re missing. And by doing so, your life is just a rehearsal for a performance that never comes.”
― Ian Kerner, Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve – A Sex Therapist's Guide to Modern Hookups and Dating

“While compromising may be the name of the game in the world of business, in this candy land we call love, it is not compromising your standards and remembering what you really want and deserve that will ultimately win the day.”
― Ian Kerner, Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve – A Sex Therapist's Guide to Modern Hookups and Dating

“I held on to this fantasy like a stubborn little pit bull.”
― Ian Kerner, Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve – A Sex Therapist's Guide to Modern Hookups and Dating