Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy Quotes

“It takes a man at least three weeks to realize you’re not actively seeking him out.  After four weeks, he’s wondering what the hell you’re doing.  After five to six weeks, chances are he’ll be acting like a high school girl wondering where the hell you are, and what the hell you’re doing…if he cared for you at all.  If he hasn’t contacted you within eight weeks he’s definitely moved on and you should do the same.  Don’t give him another thought.  Don’t let it consume your mind.  Move on and be marvelous.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Do not under any circumstances compete for his love with another woman.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“So shift it in reverse, sit back and let him have her…she’s not near the woman you are.  Don’t demean yourself by competing and don’t be jealous…you know what she’s getting - a man that’s unfaithful, a liar and a cheat.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Do not blame yourself, don’t take responsibility for his actions and don’t think there was something you were doing wrong.  The problem lies within him.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“won’t.  If he doesn’t step up for you, accept the fact that you have dodged a bullet and be thankful you didn’t allow him to waste anymore of your precious time.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“It’s not my job to fix this,” and don’t reach for the phone to do it.  Have patience and give yourself time to process the trauma you just went through and wait for him to come to you.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Don’t subject yourself to being treated poorly and know if you’re unhappy in anyway, he simply is not treating you the way you deserve.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Stop immediately and go silent, until he goes out of his way doing things for you to make you happy and content. ”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Let me assure you that Mr. Ex knows where you are and how to find you.  There is no need to send a reminder.  Besides, if he needs a reminder to call you, do you really want him anyway?  Understand there is really nothing that could possibly keep a man away from a woman he loves.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“When you’re thinking with your heart and not your mind you don’t make solid, clear choices.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“There are men that simply do not know what they want.  If this is the case, know you are not in his life to fix any unresolved issues he may have.  Let another woman waste her precious time. If he is stringing you along, don’t fool yourself by believing you can change him. Only he can make the necessary changes in his life.  When you decide to completely cut him off he’ll either decide to make those changes or he”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“No wishing him a Merry Christmas, Happy New Year or Happy Birthday.  Not a peep!”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“What do you think Mr. Ex will have to say about you while enjoying dinner with his friends or family? Will you be the crazy girl that wouldn’t go away?  Or, will you be the one he regrets losing?”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“If Mr. Ex is keeping you on the fence, now would be the perfect time to tell him you hope he calls when he figures out what he wants out of life.  In the mean time you will not be waiting for him.  Your next move is to let your actions speak louder than any words you could ever communicate and go completely silent.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Men only appreciate what they have to work hard for. You may have found yourself being too available and accommodating.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Sometimes they come back stronger and happier than ever.  But remember it takes two, to make a relationship work.  If both parties are unwilling to put forth the effort you have to be able to recognize this.  Know when to draw the line in the sand and let go.  Have the courage to say enough is enough and move on. When you can finally let go is when you will be at peace with yourself.  And this is usually the time Mr. Ex decides to get his act together. It takes four to eight weeks for a man to realize what he has lost.  By that time you may not want him back. Women may take longer to make up their minds, but once we do we stick with it.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact - A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering A Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“After all those years as a woman hearing “not thin enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not this enough, not that enough,’ almost overnight I woke up one morning and thought, ‘I’m enough.’ Anna Quindlen”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together.   Elizabeth Taylor”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Instead sit back, have patience and let the man do the hard work.  This isn’t easy... it’s hard and not for the weak.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Please do not fool yourself to believe sending a pointless text message will magically make change his mind”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Think back to what made him fall in love with you to begin with and be that woman.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“to work overtime to be in a man’s life it’s because he’s not pulling his weight or doing his own fair share of the work.  Which is making you work harder.  And the harder you work the more he loses respects for you. ”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Do not make the mistake of giving him the impression he’s on your mind.  And it is safe to say if you are talking about him or doing for him, you are thinking of him.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Know if you decide you want Mr. Ex back, you have to establish and create a new relationship.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Absence truly does make the heart grow fonder.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“When a man loves you, he is going to want to see you.  You will not have to remind him to call, plan lunch or dinner dates because he’ll be one step ahead of the game.  ”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“If a man loves you, you’ll never question where his heart is.  He will never place doubt in your mind. You’ll actually feel the love he has for you, not because he has told you, but because his actions show and prove it every single day.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“There is nothing stronger or more powerful than a woman’s intuition.”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

“Does he remember birthdays, holidays and plan a romantic dinner for Valentines? Does he listen? Does he do what he says he’s going to do?  Does he call when he says he’s going to call?  Does he care about your safety during bad weather? Is he proud of you? Does he want to show”
― Leslie Braswell, Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power