Ina May's Guide to Childbirth Quotes

“Remember this, for it is as true and true gets: Your body is not a lemon. You are not a machine. The Creator is not a careless mechanic. Human female bodies have the same potential to give birth well as aardvarks, lions, rhinoceri, elephants, moose, and water buffalo. Even if it has not been your habit throughout your life so far, I recommend that you learn to think positively about your body.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“It is important to keep in mind that our bodies must work pretty well, or their wouldn't be so many humans on the planet.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“Remember this, for it is as true as true gets: Your body is not a lemon. You are not a machine. The Creator is not a careless mechanic. Human female bodies have the same potential to give birth well as aardvarks, lions, rhinoceri, elephants, moose, and water buffalo. Even if it has not been your habit throughout your life so far, I recommend that you learn to think positively about your body.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“Gardeners know that you must nourish the soil if you want healthy plants. You must water the plants adequately, especially when seeds are germinating and sprouting, and they should be planted in a nutrient-rich soil. Why should nutrition matter less in the creation of young humans than it does in young plants? I'm sure that it doesn't.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“Even if it has not been your habit throughout your life so far, I recommend that you learn to think positively about your body.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“The techno-medical model of maternity care, unlike the midwifery model, is comparatively new on the world scene, having existed for barely two centuries. This male-derived framework for care is a product of the industrial revolution. As anthropologist Robbie Davis-Floyd has described in detail, underlying the technocratic mode of care of our own time is an assumption that the human body is a machine and that the female body in particular is a machine full of shortcomings and defects. Pregnancy and labor are seen as illnesses, which, in order not to be harmful to mother or baby, must be treated with drugs and medical equipment. Within the techno-medical model of birth, some medical intervention is considered necessary for every birth, and birth is safe only in retrospect.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“It would be a mistake, though, to consider care by family doctors or midwives inferior to that offered by obstetricians simply on the grounds that obstetricians need not refer care to a family physician or midwife if no complications develop during a course of labor.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“The Creator is not a careless mechanic.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“Your body is not a lemon!”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“Stories teach us in ways we can remember. They teach us that each woman responds to birth in her unique way and how very wide-ranging that way can be. Sometimes they teach us about silly practices once widely held that were finally discarded. They teach us the occasional difference between accepted medical knowledge and the real bodily experiences that women have - including those that are never reported in medical textbooks nor admitted as possibilities in the medical world. They also demonstrate the mind/body connection in a way that medical studies cannot. Birth stories told by women who were active participants in giving birth often express a good deal of practical wisdom, inspiration, and information for other women. Positive stories shared by women who have had wonderful childbirth experiences are an irreplaceable way to transmit knowledge of a woman's true capacities in pregnancy and birth.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“Breast stimulation is especially effective in starting labor at term when it is combined with sexual intercourse. Unless your partner is an abysmally poor lover, this combination is by far the most enjoyable method of induction.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“The state of relaxation of the mouth and jaw is directly correlated to the ability of the cervix, the vagina, and the anus to open to full capacity.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“When avoidance of pain becomes the major emphasis of childbirth care, the paradoxical effect is that more women have to deal with pain after their babies are born.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“There is no other organ quite like the uterus. If men had such an organ, they would brag about it. So should we.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“I have felt incredible energy and life force through my body, and I have really been reborn a happier, healthier, and more confident person. I have learned I can choose to focus on the darker side or the lighter side of all that is around me. I choose the lighter side and have the discipline to keep it up.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“Step one to preventing PPD is to find time to sleep after giving birth, no matter how euphoric you feel.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“I have also known of weight estimates by ultrasound to be off by as much as five pounds.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“Contrary to myth, for instance, intrinsic physical characteristics only rarely interfere with the capacity to give birth. In other words, your pelvis is probably big enough for vaginal birth. Nearly every woman’s is. Mental attitudes and emotions, on the other hand, interfere with the ability to give birth far more than is generally understood.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“Dear Lord, make us truly grateful for what it is that we are about to receive.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“I kept thinking while I was pushing, I’m going to get huge. I’m going to get huge!” she said.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“The strangest request I have encountered was that of a first-time mother who—just before pushing—asked her husband for a jar of peanut butter and proceeded to eat two heaping table-spoonfuls. She then washed the peanut butter down with nearly a quart of raspberry leaf tea and pushed her baby out. I was impressed.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“Remember this, for it is as true as true gets: Your body is not a lemon. You are not a machine. The Creator is not a careless mechanic.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“All I had to do was trust the fact that I could handle what my body was presenting, and all would be well.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“guess the most important thing I figured out was that your attitude and how you approach your birth is of the utmost importance”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“One of the best-kept secrets in North American culture is that birth can be ecstatic and strengthening.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“The pain of labor and birth has an entirely different message. It says: “Relax your pelvic muscles. Let go. Surrender. Go with the flow. Don’t fight this. It’s bigger than you.” This is far different from the message of “Protect yourself!” or “Run away!” that accompanies injury.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“It is good to regard labor as hard work to be done, work that a long line of female ancestors did in the past that enabled us to be here at all.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“Believe me: if you are told that some experience is going to hurt, it will hurt. Much of pain is in the mind, and when a woman absorbs the idea that the act of giving birth is excruciatingly painful—when she gets this information from her mother, her sisters, her married friends, and her physician—that woman has been mentally prepared to feel great agony.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“Midwives provide all the prenatal care healthy women need. The midwifery ideal is to work with each woman and her family to identify her unique physical, social, and emotional needs. In general, midwifery care is associated with fewer episiotomies, fewer instrumental deliveries, fewer epidurals, and fewer cesarean sections. Midwives are trained to identify the relatively small percentage of births in which complications develop and to refer these to obstetricians.”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material

“We are, indeed, fully prepared to believe that the bearing of children may and ought to become as free from danger and long debility to the civilized woman as it is to the savage. —Thomas Huxley”
― Ina May Gaskin, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: Updated With New Material