Getting Love Right Quotes

“Love, as Paul and the New Testament presents it, is not action—not even action with a special intention—but a source of action.”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right

“Desire and feelings fall into the domain of impulse, not that of choice.”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right

“not saying that we are to be patient, kind, humble and so forth, but that love itself is patient, kind, humble, etc.”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right

“malice or desire and intention to harm is often rooted in how we think about the persons concerned: our images of them, the inferences we habitually draw about them, and so forth.  Perhaps we see them only as an obstacle to our desires, or as less than “human,” as worthless. Perhaps we need to take steps toward seeing them as objects of God’s love, or as beings of intrinsic value, like our own children or grandchildren or others we delight in.  That will, in turn, require changes in how we think about our world and our self.  All of this may be helped along by getting to know them, seeing what their life is like, or serving them.”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right

“Such love is holistic, not something one turns on or off for this or that person or thing. Its orientation is toward life as a whole. It dwells on good wherever it may be found, and supports it in action. Love is nourished upon the good and the right and the beautiful.”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right

“And we and the public are constantly confronted with professing Christians who, to say the least, do not love one another, but may clearly hate and despise or be indifferent to those around them.”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right

“Thomas Oord, in his Science of Love and elsewhere, defines or describes love as acting intentionally, in sympathetic response to others (including God), to promote overall well-being. I believe this to be one of the better efforts toward articulating agape love. Most importantly, it distinguishes love from desire, and locates it in the will, leaving room for desire and feeling to play an appropriate role in love without making them the heart of the matter. ”
― Dallas Willard, Getting Love Right