My Life in Middlemarch Quotes

“Reading is sometimes thought of as a form of escapism, and it’s a common turn of phrase to speak of getting lost in a book. But a book can also be where one finds oneself; and when a reader is grasped and held by a book, reading does not feel like an escape from life so much as it feels like an urgent, crucial dimension of life itself.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch

“What's your favorite book?' is a question that is usually only asked by children and banking identity-verification services--and favorite isn't, anyway, the right word to describe the relationship a reader has with a particularly cherished book. Most serious readers can point to one book that has a place in their life like the one that 'Middlemarch' has in mine.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch

“Books gave us a way to shape ourselves—to form our thoughts and to signal to each other who we were and who we wanted to be.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“If Art does not enlarge men’s sympathies, it does nothing morally,” Eliot once wrote. “The only effect I ardently long to produce by my writings, is that those who read them should be better able to imagine and to feel the pains and the joys of those who differ from themselves in everything but the broad fact of being struggling erring human creatures.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“Being absolutely sure that one is right is part of growing up, and so is realizing, years later, that the truth might be more nuanced.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“Middlemarch offers what George Eliot calls, in a wonderfully suggestive turn of phrase, "the home epic"- the momentous, ordinary journey traveled by most of us who have not even thought of aspiring to sainthood. The home epic has its own nostalgia - not for a country left behind but for a childhood landscape lost.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch

“Some very eminent critics writing in the decades immediately after the novel's publication felt that Eliot failed to maintain sufficient critical distance in her depiction of Ladislaw--that she fell in love with her own creation in a way that shows a lack of artistic control and is even unseemly, like a hoary movie director whose lens lingers too long on the young flesh of a favored actress. Lord David Cecil calls Ladislaw 'a schoolgirl's dream, and a vulgar one at that,' while Leslie Stephen complained 'Ladislaw is almost obtrusively a favorite with his creator,' and depreciated him as 'an amiable Bohemian.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch

“Eliot was scornful of idle women readers who imagined themselves the heroines of French novels, and of self-regarding folk who saw themselves in the most admirable character in a novel, and she hoped for more nuanced engagement from her own readers. Even so, all readers make books over in their own image, and according to their own experience.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch

“THERE is no general doctrine which is not capable of eating out our morality if unchecked by the deep-seated habit of direct fellow-feeling with individual fellow-men,”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“In 1919, with Europe ravaged and eight and a half million young men dead, a meliorist view of history would have been especially hard to sustain.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“meliorism”—the conviction that, through the small, beneficent actions and intentions of individuals, the world might gradually grow to be a better place.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“It is undeniable, that unions formed in the maturity of thought and feeling, and grounded only on inherent fitness and mutual attraction, tended to bring women into more intelligent sympathy with men,”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“In all my imaginings about what it would mean to have her in my life, I had forgotten to include the prospect of joy.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“Reading is often thought of as a form of escapism, and it's a common turn of phrase to speak of getting lost in a book. But a book can also be where one finds oneself...”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch

“A book may not tell us exactly how to live our own lives, but our own lives can teach us how to read a book.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“Even so, all readers make books over in their own image, and according to their own experience. My Middlemarch is not the same as anyone else’s Middlemarch; it is not even the same as my Middlemarch of twenty-five years ago. Sometimes, we find that a book we love has moved another person in the same ways as it has moved ourselves, and one definition of compatibility might be when two people have highlighted the same passages in their editions of a favorite novel. But we each have our own internal version of the book, with lines remembered and resonances felt.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch: A Memoir

“I could understand the impulse to make the novel more accessible. I want as many people as possible to read The Mill on the Floss too. But like paperback editions of classic novels issued with updated covers resembling those of Twilight, it seemed a pandering and misbegotten effort, as if no young reader today might possibly pick up a novel written one hundred and fifty years ago unless the book were in sexy neo-Gothic drag.”
― Rebecca Mead, My Life in Middlemarch