The House We Grew Up In Quotes

“I know as well as you do that only the individual has the key to change themselves. It’s buried deep inside each and every one of us and although someone else can help us to find the key, we’re the only ones who can use it.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“The human memory is such a cruel, frustrating thing, the way it just discards things without asking permission, precious things.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“she was only here because she didn’t have the guts to be anywhere else. Because she felt like the last guest at an unsuccessful party, too guilt-ridden to leave.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“The human memory is such a cruel, frustrating thing, the way it just discards things without asking permission, precious things. At least here, in my house, I have control over my memories.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Like any challenge in life, once the mind was focused on the job in question, it became a simple matter of getting on with it, inch by inch, step by step.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Imagine,” she said, her face turning serious for a moment, “imagine if something happened to one of us and there was no Easter egg hunt next year, imagine if everything stopped being perfect—you would wish so hard that you’d taken part today . . .”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Why is Nana's house so messy?', she asked after an incongruous moment. Vicky smiled. Ah, well you see, your Nana is a very special lady. She's really quite magical, you know. And when she looks at the world, she sees it in a very special way, like it's a party bag or a toy shop, and she likes to keep bits of it, and she feels sad when she throws things away.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“This is the real world. We are real people. This is real life. And things sometimes happen that don’t fit in with how we think the story should go, but we just have to take a deep breath and get on with it, not sit there in the corner sulking because it’s not what we were hoping for.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Her mother existed entirely in the moment. And she made every moment sparkle.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“the individual has the key to change themselves. It’s buried deep inside each and every one of us and although someone else can help us to find the key, we’re the only ones who can use it. And there,”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“softly, “with the little ones. Make it fair.” Meg was about to complain but then she took”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“But maybe I’ll end up doing something else unconventional. Who knows. And I really hope that if I do, and as long as I’m not hurting anyone or doing anything, like, illegal, that everyone would accept it, you know, just carry on loving me anyway.” Meg”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“room. She stood for a while in the middle, imagining herself not in it anymore, imagining herself instead in her sister’s”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“The concept of a troubled, lonely, middle-class, gay fifty-eight-year-old living alone in dusty squalor in a chocolate-box cottage in the heart of the Cotswolds was a hard one to grasp in the context of his sweaty, noisy, hectic, foreign, red-light existence.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“The hardest thing to accept is that some things happen for absolutely no reason at all.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“The human memory is such a cruel, frustrating thing. The way it just discards things without asking permission. Precious things.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Someone once said to Megan that sisters always feel more beautiful when they’re together and, ever since, Megan had found it to be true. Without Beth, Meg felt reasonable; with her she felt exceptional.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“You are a grown woman! You're not a teenager. This is the real world. We are real people. This is real life. And things sometimes happen that don't fit in with how we think the story should go, but we just have to take a deep breath and get on with it, not sit there in the corner sulking because it's not what we were hoping for. Come on!”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“The journey back through the house, like all return journeys, felt shorter and less convoluted; the sense of knowing how long the tunnels were and where they ended up was reassuring”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Memories fluttered about her mind, of days that had passed and died and were never to return.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“I always thought that every day should be Valentine’s. Well, POTENTIALLY Valentine’s at least, if you see what I mean. You know, why wait for a certain day if you want to buy flowers now? Unimaginative really, isn’t it, buying overpriced roses on the same day as everybody else. You know, you see a woman walking home with a bouquet of flowers, you think, Wow, someone really loves her! You see the same woman with the same bouquet on Valentine’s and you just get the feeling that someone was going through the motions.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Cream sofas, cream carpet, framed photographs, marble fire surround, glass coffee table, everything just skirting the edges of modern, but not quite getting there. As though Meg was too scared to make any kind of statement in case she got it wrong.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Her girls were eight and nearly six. She was in the gentle stage of the parenting journey known as “middle childhood.” Her children were solid, predictable, safe. They didn’t scare her anymore as they had when they were small, when there had been the ever-present fear of a public tantrum, a broken night, a dash off a curb, an unannounced bowel movement in a public pool. And neither were there the fears to come: the failed exams, the bad friends, the late nights and the journeys home in unlicensed taxis. Here she could exhale for a while, pause to admire the view, think fondly of her babies but know that she would never have to go back there again.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Vicky herself was dressed in one of her stretchy dresses in a bold tribal print that she bought from a catalog that seemed to sell nothing but clothes in bold tribal prints for extroverted ladies who were a bit overweight and shouldn’t really wear bold tribal prints but didn’t care and wore them anyway.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Did reading this book make you reconsider your relationship with your family?”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“So I leapt on the first undamaged man to cross my path and made him fill me up with babies so that I could do it my way. And hey, whaddya know, my way has ended up full of secrets and silence too!! Different silence. Different secrets. But still, it’s all there.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“I love other people’s families,” he said. “They always make me feel better about my own.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“Remember, Megan, that wherever you find yourselves, you are all pebbles from the same beach. Look after each other.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“the bittersweet fusion of pride and hopelessness”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In

“She’d ummed and aahed and mentally measured out the constituent ingredients of guilt, duty, resentment and selfishness until she’d finally come up with a recipe for Doing the Right Thing.”
― Lisa Jewell, The House We Grew Up In