The Mad Wife Quotes

“If you, Dear Reader, have ever felt unseen, unheard, or untethered from the world around you, I hope this story reminds you that your existence, your presence, your voice, your heart is enough. You deserve to be here. You always have. Take care of yourself and each other.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Of course, sometimes we forget that dreams and nightmares are two sides of the same coin”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Life is a continual process of letting go, but this I choose to hold on to. This I will never surrender, because I remember. Always and forever, I remember.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“They say women forget, but we don’t. We tuck away the throes deep in our bones, forever carrying the memories in the recesses of our bodies.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Sometimes the memories we keep are the ones we’d rather forget. But they have a way of finding us in the night, whispering along the wind so we remember.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“How long had that tree stood there? How much had it seen? How many seasons had come and gone as it stood rooted in that one place, growing and dropping leaves, rebirthing and releasing year after year after year? How many times had the first beams of sunshine illuminated its languid branches and shimmered its dancing leaves, casting wavering shapes that shifted with the changing hours? I used to resist the dark places, but now I knew that the fullness of life includes all of it: the light, the dark, and the shadows that creep between.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“All of us are evolutions of ourselves, changing over time as the calendar moves forward. Who we are when we leave this world is not who we were when we entered.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Life is a continual process of letting go”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Sometimes forgetting is a mercy, and recalling is a pain too deep to bear”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Stories have a way of finding us at just the right—or sometimes the most fragile—moment. This one is steeped in history, woven with grief and longing, and tangled in the complexities of the human mind. It explores the weight of silence, the ache of the unseen, and the shadows that linger in the spaces between what is known and what is lost.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Together does not mean sameness. He didn’t know—wouldn’t know—what it felt like inside my body and mind. He would never understand existing in a body that fought itself. He would never know the urgency to live as the clock ticked louder, faster, time suddenly having a different quality to it. He wouldn’t know what it was to be the light caught in a jar, watching the lid turn and tighten, each breath one closer to the final, last suffocating one.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“sometimes we forget that dreams and nightmares are two sides of the same coin.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“And my hope moving forward is that we may all have the eyes to see the silent suffering in front of us, the ears to hear their cries, and the empathy to take their hand and let them know that they are not alone, because we are all ghosts of this mysterious realm called life.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“The road home can be a long and winding drive, a labyrinth of memories and mistakes.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“It’s surprising how much you can miss someone you’re not sure ever really loved you.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“We think we are the superior species, and yet there is so much we don’t know. Like the songs of birds. We hear the tune, but we don’t know the words. We only know what we want to hear.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“I suppose it was in the darkness of the morning before the sun peeked over the horizon that I first came to believe that a home has a soul.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Of course, sometimes we forget that dreams and nightmares are two sides of the same coin.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Sometimes forgetting is a mercy, and recalling is a pain too deep to bear.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Babies are blessings, they say. But what often goes unsaid is that blessings aren’t always what we expect. And sometimes when we focus on the light they bring, we miss the shadows that lurk behind.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“An illusion may have been lifted the day the empty blanket fell to the floor, but in the shadow moments of the night, she calls to me again. I am no longer haunted by it. Instead, I embrace those moments because they belong to only us. No one else needs to know about them. No one needs to know about those times when she is with me, when we are together, when we step into those liminal moments of dormiveglia that pull us into each other’s presence across space and time, and what some may even consider sanity.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“all I needed was a moment to myself without being touched.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“I looked forward to the summer days”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“All those weeks, I had focused on the strange woman across the street, but I had missed the mad wife in the mirror.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“It’s you. It’s only ever been you.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“only ever been you.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Isn’t that really the disappointment of being human? We think we know so much. We think that we are the superior species and yet, there’s so much we don’t know, like the songs of birds. We hear the tune but we don’t know the words. We only know what we want to hear.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“I suppose change likes to be subtle, sneaking in even when we think we’re paying attention.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“Henry asked me to remember. I did. And I always will, every day for the rest of my life. Every birthday of hers that comes and goes, I will remember. Every Christmas we celebrate without her, every milestone Wesley reaches that she won’t, every child her age who grows taller, goes to school, graduates, goes on with life, will remind me of how she didn’t get that chance. I will always remember because I have always carried her deep inside me. Even when she wasn’t in my arms, she was in my heart, calling to my soul, granting my mind a mercy for the moment I needed to heal just a bit before the dawn broke, the haze cleared, and I had to face the truth in the daylight.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife

“In 1952, Dr. Walter Freeman, the creator of the transorbital lobotomy (which went through the eye socket instead of the temple), took the practice on the road with Operation Ice Pick. For two weeks, he drove around Virginia as part of a state-sponsored initiative. He performed 228 lobotomies out of his van, which he named the Lobotomobile.”
― Meagan Church, The Mad Wife