Children Are from Heaven Quotes

“Many studies have shown that children who are able to postpone gratification are more successful in life. This really doesn’t require a study to realize. Look around you and you will see that people who succeed are people who patiently persist in achieving their goals. They do not throw in the towel when they don’t get what they want right away. They don’t lose touch with or deny their wants and wishes just because life doesn’t give them what they want when they want it. They bounce back from life’s setbacks with renewed energy and enthusiasm.”
― John Gray, Children Are from Heaven: Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children

“Until the age of nine, a child doesn’t need choices. Having too many choices pushes a child to grow up too soon. One of the greatest sources of stress for adults today is too many choices. Directly asking a young child what she wants puts too much pressure on the child. Always asking children what they want or how they feel weakens a parent’s ability to maintain control.”
― John Gray, Children Are from Heaven: Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children