This Strange Eventful History Quotes

“A story is not a line; it is a richer thing, one that circles and eddies, rises and falls, repeats upon itself.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“He, who had wandered all his life unseen, so little known, so often feeling alone and unloved - I wanted him, his departing spirit, to know that we were with him, that we accompanied him, filled with love, to the gate. There is not more, as humans, that we can do.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“His life, in which nothing, absolutely nothing, happened. He embarked on no adventures, he was in no war. He was never in prison, he never killed anyone. He neither won nor lost a fortune. All he ever did was live in this century. But that alone was enough to give his life dimension, both of feeling and of thought. —Elias Canetti, Notes from Hampstead”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“God how she’d cared; and who, in their turn, had reciprocated? Who’d cared about her?”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“That their love was not enough. And that as more and more of these familiars passed away, the world around you became less and less interesting, less and less real.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“That night they were all thinking, although they did not say it, that if only they hurried down to the seafront, they could still, surely, clamber onto the boat, they could still find him and throw their arms around him and urge him not to go.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“while they returned to shore, and to their first evening of being three, without him.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“but what he wouldn’t have given to drive the Mazda one more time to the Food Emporium and wait in the parking lot with the AC on, and WQXR, while Barbara disappeared into the supermarket for twice as long as she’d promised and returned with enough food for a family of eight. How swiftly life vanished. What he wouldn’t give to take the kids to the Beach House restaurant and sit in one of the booths near the door, not so comfortable but cheery, the black-and-white tile and the pretty green-eyed waitress, and he’d hold Barb’s hand under the table like high school sweethearts—the American high school fantasy he knew only from the movies—while the grandchildren, beauteous in their youth without knowing it, Ines, newly silent, long-legged like a foal, arms crossed over her tiny breast buds, watching everything with those Byzantine blue eyes; chubby Lev with his blond curls and porcelain-white skin, his high giggle, in whose face François saw his own, only fairer; Aude, sparkles on her little fingernails, her spindly waving hands like seaweed in the current, singing pop songs under her breath; and her solid little brother, named after François’s beloved long-vanished mother, a different mirror of his youthful self, always the clown . . . what he would have given to pay their absurd prices one more time, to order the ceviche—not very good—which slithered cold down his throat and snap the bland breadsticks, their sprinkled sesame seeds their only source of flavor. . . . All that was most banal was revealed to him, again, as beautiful, each physical sensation a tiny explosion of life, a burst of love . . . but it was better, perhaps, not to have known which visit was the last. What was the saying? It’s always later than you think. He’d hoped—he’d always been an optimist, in spite of everything—for more.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“where had she gone? As if someone with an eraser had smudged her edges little by little, removing her outline, but had left her smile, her beautiful eyes—where did a person go, in this strange neurological decline?”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“If nobody lived here, if nobody opened the books, switched on the lamps, ate off the chipped plates, sat in the hard armchair by the window to watch the sea night and day in its ceaseless rhythm—then what was this place? And, more urgently, without him in this place—he who had assured me, when I was young, that family was all that mattered, that family, for the itinerant certainly, for those with no country, was home—who were we?”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“Because, I thought, my father had wanted—needed—to get away. Or because he didn’t realize he was leaving when he left—but that made no sense. Time and again he had chosen: the fellowship, graduate school, my mother, the work postings outside France. . . . Even now, in retirement, though his pension came from France, he insisted that he couldn’t possibly live there: the taxes were too high, he claimed. But really he just didn’t wish to, he had never wished to. He had all his life been torn between his filial duty and the desire to”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“He sometimes felt that getting older was like inhabiting a mansion you couldn’t afford, so that you were forced to shut down one room after another, eventually entire wings, until you huddled in the kitchen, breaking up the furniture for firewood.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“And after this one, only death. But just as she had herself been in the hands of Nature, so too Grand-père was now laboring, as she had labored, to a different end. Dying was long, hard work.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“He’d told me, around the same time, when I’d announced that my friends mattered more to me than anything, that I spoke out of youthful ignorance and would discover, in time, that family was all that ultimately mattered.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“You’re much too good for me, is the trouble. You should have had a sister who could follow you in all your worries, all your discussions, a sister you would’ve wanted to talk to about your life. But I’m incapable of that. Which must pain you. Know, though, that as long as I live, I’m ready to do anything for you. I’m not in the habit of bragging, but I think few sisters love and admire their brothers the way I do you. I so wish I were a remarkable person. Maybe in the next life.” She paused, reread what she’d written, wondered if it was too heartfelt—François made a joke out of everything. She didn’t want this to be something he could mock; this was her heart, on paper. S”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“I’m a writer; I tell stories. I want to tell the stories of their lives. It doesn’t really matter where I start. We’re always in the middle; wherever we stand, we see only partially. I know also that everything is connected, the constellations of our lives moving together in harmony and disharmony. The past swirls along with and inside the present, and all time exists at once, around us. The ebb and flow, the harmonies and dissonance—the music happens, whether or not we describe it. A story is not a line; it is a richer thing, one that circles and eddies, rises and falls, repeats upon itself.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“But remember, we Jews came here as refugees, expelled from Spain in 1492, resettled at the mercy—and the whim—of the Ottoman sultan. The reason so many of us have Spanish names—yes, I see you know. My point is: five hundred years is not enough to make us forget that we are exiles, that even where we seem most at home we may need to leave—”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“But our people have always understood uncertainty, and have lived with it. We expect it. We live always as though we might have to leave at a moment’s notice.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“Each of us needs to be awake to the present . . . in all our senses, with our bodies and minds as one . . . only then are we in a state of sacredness.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“The past swirls along with and inside the present, and all time exists at once, around us.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“They, too, carry the source within them. But for their children, cast into a windblown century without God, where is there to be but alone and unseen, anonymous in the crowd? Who will carry us back to a place that lives only in the vast imaginary? 'Do you not see how a caged bird, oh youth, / Breaks into song when it recalls its ancestral home?”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“Her brother was dying. She wasn't curious any longer: much that she now knew caused her pain, and she strove, chiefly, to numb that pain when she could.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“This strange eventful history that made a life. Not good or bad - rather, both good and bad - but that was not the point. Above all, they had been, for so long, wildly curious. Just to see, to experience all that they could, to set foot anywhere, to speak to anyone, taste anything, to learn, to know.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“She knew loss too well, knew that your dear ones never left, that they stayed with you, spoke to you, attempted to console you, but that these ghosts had no arms to hold you, that no one else could hear their jokes. That their love was not enough. And that as more and more of these familiars passed away, the world around you became less and less interesting, less and less real.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“... never allowing his eyes to meet his eyes in the mirror, never permitting himself fully to take stock, afraid, yes, of what he might see there, a bottomless space for which there was no word, though the closest word was 'grief'...”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“Family life, like playing chess, involved always thinking several steps ahead.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“Look at all the others with whom you share the boat. Beyond the most immediate, you can't choose your companions for a crossing or a generation. You can't know the weather in store, the size of the waves. All in this strange eventful history is uncertain.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“How differently from me my grandparents and aunt lived, formed and bolstered by their beliefs - in God, in patriotic hierarchies, in antique social constraints - and by a lost world order.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“I believed in their wisdom, and their gifts for happiness, or at least contentment, gifts that had eluded the next generation of my mother, my father, and my aunt.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History

“How exhausting it was, Denise reflected as she regained her chair, simply to be alive, well past life's midpoint, alone in her heart, and every interaction a labor.”
― Claire Messud, This Strange Eventful History