Beautiful In My Worn Clothes Quotes

“Love cannot be controlled. It will flow wherever it chooses. It is an essential part of our nature and thus inherently free. Love has no respect for boundaries that would prohibit it based on age, gender, race, religion, class, politics, or ability. It is individuals striving to be happy and, as such, love is an oppositional power to state and institutional authority.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Love is a mad hallucination of luna-tics that, through its vision, creates a world where the extraordinary and eternal transgress the everyday.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Erotic love is a threat to the state, the church and the family in that it leads to a more primary union, one that is highly pleasurable, with which they cannot compete on its terms. Sexual love transgresses boundaries, not respecting reason, obedience and duty. It is madness and uncontrollable by authority.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“The moral dilemma that the little mermaid must confront - that she can only live by killing the one she loves - is the ethical choice at the heart of love. The other person, their identity and feelings, can be sacrificed for our pleasure.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“When love is reciprocal, two people reveal each to the other through their mutual appreciation and jointly create something new. I give you as a gift to you. It is a ritual of naming and identity.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Love transgresses the possibility of the rights of the individual becoming only selfish indulgence. For love, we will accept a person's faults and pain, and take them on as our own.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Turning love into a commodity contributed greatly to the expansion of modern alienation ... It is the love of an actual person that transgresses the checklists and lets us accept another as they actually are.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Relationships based on undirected love ... demand a personal ethical obligation to the other, and that extends outward, politically, to the broader society.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“The transgressive quality of love is evident in our daily lives ... Teenage love can rend the fabric of a nuclear family, and the structure of authority within it.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Love is an act of art ... It is this creative quality of love, that it seeks to reshape the world for its sake and to create happiness, which makes love radical and potentially seditious ... the inverse is also true: art is an act of love.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“The transgressive quality of love is the transgressive quality of art ... From the Pre-Raphaelites till now, the avant-garde has always been characterized by radical views of love and sex.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“Love is to be feared by power because it leads to rebellion. “Why do slaves love?” asked ex-slave Harriet Jacobs and I think the answer is, because it is in the human fibre to do so, to exercise this natural power to (re)create the world.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“A truly shared kiss requires freedom and equality.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love

“The autonomy to have a consensual relationship with whoever we love is the ultimate measure of the freedom of a society.”
― Rod Dubey, Beautiful In My Worn Clothes: The Transgressions of Love