How to Meditate Quotes

“No … big … deal.” He wasn’t saying “bad,” and he wasn’t saying “good.” He was saying that these things happen and they can transform your life, but at the same time don’t make too big a deal of them, because that leads to arrogance and pride, or a sense of specialness. On the other hand, making too big a deal about your difficulties takes you in the other direction; it takes you into poverty, self-denigration, and a low opinion of yourself.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“The principle of nowness is very important to any effort to establish an enlightened society. You may wonder what the best approach is to helping society and how you can know that what you are doing is authentic and good. The only answer is nowness. The way to relax, or rest the mind in nowness, is through the practice of meditation. In meditation you take an unbiased approach. You let things be as they are, without judgment, and in that way you yourself learn to be. —CHÖGYAM TRUNGPA RINPOCHE”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“The sage Shantideva, in the Bodhicaryavatara, in talking about the subject of suffering, offered a famous analogy for how we try to alleviate our suffering. He’s said that if you walk on the earth and it’s hurting your feet, you might want to cover all the earth with hides of leather, so that you’d never have to suffer from the pain of the ground. But where could such an amount of leather be found? Rather, you could simply wrap a bit of leather around your feet, and then it’s as if the whole world is covered with leather and you’re always protected.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“The natural quality of mind is clear, awake, alert, and knowing. Free from fixation. By training in being present, we come to know the nature of our mind. So the more you train in being present - being right here - the more you begin to feel like your mind is sharpening up. The mind that can come back to the present is clearer and more refreshed, and it can better weather all the ambiguities, pains, and paradoxes of life.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate

“This is a standard meditation instruction that you can embody in the entirety of your life: do not act out and do not repress. See what happens if you don’t do either of those things.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“En la meditación enseñamos a dejar que la piedra, la emoción, caiga sin producir ondas.”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar

“The towns and countryside that the traveler sees through a train window do not slow down the train, nor does the train affect them. Neither disturbs the other. This is how you should see the thoughts that pass through your mind when you meditate. —DILGO KHYENTSE RINPOCHE”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“In meditation, you are moving closer and closer to yourself, and you begin to understand yourself so much more clearly. You begin to see clearly without a conceptual analysis, because with regular practice, you see what you do over and over and over and over again. You see that you replay the same tapes over and over and over in your mind. The name of the partner might be different, the employer might be different, but the themes are somewhat repetitious. Meditation helps us to clearly see ourselves and the habitual patterns that limit our life.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“I was reading a transcript of a talk by Ponlop Rinpoche, and he said, “In the process of uncovering buddha nature, in the process of uncovering our open, unfixated quality of our mind, we have to be willing to get our hands dirty.” In other words, he was saying that we need to be willing to work with our disturbing emotions, the ones that feel entirely dark.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“The principle of nowness is very important to any effort to establish an enlightened society.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“In other words, you could endlessly try to have suffering cease by dealing with outer circumstances—and that’s usually what all of us do. It is the usual approach; you just try to solve the outer problem again and again and again. But the Buddha said something quite revolutionary, which most of us don’t really buy: if you work with your mind, you will alleviate all the suffering that seems to come from the outside. When something is bothering you—a person is bugging you, a situation is irritating you, or physical pain is troubling you—you must work with your mind, and that is done through meditation. Working with our minds is the only means through which we’ll actually begin to feel happy and contented with the world that we live in.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“Meditation works very directly with beginning to see what we’re doing and beginning to realize that we have a choice in any moment to either return to the present or to escalate our suffering by letting our stories and thoughts take over.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your own wisdom to manifest, and this happens because you’re not repressing this wisdom any longer.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“In fact, the only thing that keeps us from being alive and delighted—or alive and interested with some sense of appetite for our life—is that we have no encouragement to sit still. When we feel tense, when we feel pain, when we feel shaky, we have no encouragement to relax and soften our stomach and our shoulders and our mind and our heart. Anytime you want to make something out of your life, let go. Let go more. Soften. This is how your life becomes workable. This is how your life becomes wonderful.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“With meditation practice, slowly over time we find that we are more and more able to stay present in everything we do. We can even do it when we’re having a conversation: we stay mindful and present to the person speaking to us, rather than wandering off to what we need to add to our shopping list. After a while, you don’t even think about an object of meditation. There’s just the continual coming back, and a more and more continuous sense of presence. And when that happens, you know that it’s happened. Usually it happens in little blips and blurps, but it’s quite dramatic when you realize that you’ve never been present in your whole life before, and suddenly there’s this simple experience of being fully here. It can happen out of the blue one day when you’re meditating, or it can happen when you’re washing a dish. The sense that you are just being present is so simple and so gorgeously alive. It is a big breakthrough.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“That which is threatening to ego is liberating to the heart.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“We turn our emotions into frozen objects and invest them with truth, and as a result they have so much power over us.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“Distraction is married to discontent”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“So the intelligent way of working with emotions is to try to relate with their basic substance. The basic “isness” quality of the emotions, the fundamental nature of the emotions, is just energy. And if one is able to relate with the energy, then the energies have no conflict with you. They become a natural process.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“We can't control what's going to happen but we can grow in awareness of what is happening.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate

“Meditation is just gently coming back again and again to what's right here.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate

“When we multitask and split up our mind into a million directions, we are actually creating our own suffering, because these habits strengthen strong emotional reactivity and discursive thought.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“la meditación nos ofrece la oportunidad de mantener una atención abierta y compasiva hacia todo lo que ocurre.”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar

“When you hold a fixed idea of yourself, you have to leave out all the parts that you find boring, embarrassing, difficult, or sad. You leave out the emotions you don’t want to feel. And then when you do that, when you leave out all those parts, when those parts are not acceptable, then it eats away at you underneath. These unacknowledged parts are like a hum in the background that’s eating away at you, and you have to find an escape to get away from that.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“But the Buddhist teachings are not only about removing the symptoms of suffering, they’re about actually removing the cause, or the root, of suffering.”
― Pema Chödrön, How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

“este dogma por el que sientes que el mundo se va a hundir si no actúa como tú quieres es una manera de agresión, aunque la creencia se considere digna o humanitaria”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar

“Uno de los muchos dones de la meditación es que nos ayuda a interesarnos por nuestras vidas con curiosidad y expansión, en lugar de adoptar la posición de ver todas las complejidades que se nos presentan como una lucha constante.”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar

“Tu mente es como un cubo de basura chiflado que grita».”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar

“Amabilidad, paciencia y sentido del humor. Tener sentido del humor por el hecho de que tu mente sea como un mono salvaje.”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar

“Todos nosotros somos en ocasiones un caso perdido.”
― Pema Chödrön, Cómo meditar