First Comes Love Quotes

“Life is too short to waste time on people who don't lift you up, who don't inspire you-they'll eventually drain you.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I crave space. It charges my batteries. It helps me breathe. Being around people can be so exhausting, because most of them love to take and barely know how to give. Except for a rare few.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I don’t know much, but this is what I’ve learned. You’ll fall for the last person you ever thought you’d be interested in. That’s the tricky part. You might not even notice her at first. And she usually comes around just when you’ve stopped looking. But if you pay attention, you’ll know it’s her because she’ll stand out from everybody else. She might even scare you. But if you’re lucky enough to meet this girl, be smart enough to realize it and try not to screw it up.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“If you only focus on the things you leave behind, you'll never go anywhere.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“When your world's become one person, how do you prepare to let her go? How do you get over someone you know you'll never forget?”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I think everyone’s caught up in these narrow-minded worlds and they think their world exists in the center of the universe. Relationships only happen when it’s convenient. You have to walk on eggshells for people because that’s about how strong they are these days. And you can’t confront people, because if you do, that brittle shell of confidence will crack. So we all become passive cowards that carry a fake smile wherever we go because God forbid you let your guard down long enough for people to see your life isn’t perfect. That you have a few flaws. Because who wants to see that? My theory is everybody sucks. So, my conclusion is I don’t need anybody.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“What do you say when you’re not enough to make someone stay?”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“Look around you. The earth wouldn't exist without the sun. Plants would die without rain. We're all meant to lean on something. Or someone.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“It's amazing how far you're willing to go when someone believes in you”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“Live a little," she tells me. "You're never going to experience anything if you wait around for perfect conditions.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“What do you say when you're not enough to make someone stay? What do you do when you meet the love of your life and realize it's all about timing? How do you accept that no matter how perfect you are for each other, circumstances get in the way? How do you compete with that kind of fate?”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“Because if you’re lucky enough to have people in your life that make you happy, that inspire you, that move you, you need to devour each moment you have together because you never know how many of those moments you have left. These people are sacred.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“Sometimes the smallest victories in life are more rewarding than the greatest milestones.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I couldn't sleep," she confesses.
"Why not?" I ask.
She smiles at me. It's this sweet, innocent smile, and it makes my heart stammer.
"You didn't kiss me today," she says. "And I wanted you to.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“We’re all meant to lean on something. Or someone.' I smile. He frowns. He surprises me and grabs the pen out of my hand. He starts writing something down in his neat block letters. He slides the journal back to me. 'I build walls around myself. I lean on those.' I don’t need to ask him why. Everybody builds walls—it’s for protection. I scribble quickly. 'Maybe you should break the walls down once in a while.' 'I’ll just build them up again', he writes. 'But maybe you’ll add a few windows the next time around. Or a door?”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“It's easy to hear words. It's another thing to accept them.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“Lying is manipulation. I prefer to call what I did ‘improvisation in times of desperation.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“If you're lucky enough to fall in love with someone, then forget about your imperfections. Because in their eyes, you're perfect. You won't get anywhere in life until you let go of your stupid ego.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“So, that's the secret to happiness? Don't tak life seriously?" I ask.
"No," she says. "Take life seriously. That you have to do. Don't take yourself seriously, that's the key. Let it all go. Don't care for a second what people think of you. In fact, go out of your way to keep them guessing.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I’d rather fail miserably pursuing my dreams than succeed at something I have to settle for”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“Fate can only get you so far. It can put you down the right path or introduce you to a particular person, but the rest is up to you. Even the strongest storm need a wind to carry them in.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“In my baggy jeans and messy hair, I know I don't fit into this plastic palace. But I don't want to fit in. That's when no one notices you. You leave a longer impression when you're brave enough to stand out.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I love you," she says. "But that doesn't mean I'm ready to give up my life for you. I don't want to pull over and park right now. I want to see places, Gray. I want to live my life. You're asking me to give up who I am. If I move with you, I'll just be living your life. Your dream. I'll regret the things you're going to hold me back from doing, and then I'll probably blame you. And that's not fair to either of us.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“When everything comes easily to you, it never challenges you to change.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I don't want to lose you," he says.
I stop because I finally know what I need to say.
"Gray, I'm not yours to lose.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“... music can change your mood instantly. It can make memories feel present and any dream seem tangible.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“You know you love someone when he makes all the ordinary moments feel extraordinary. When doing absolutely nothing feels like everything. Gray assumed he wasn't enough. And what I didn't admit, what I didn't realize at the time, is that it's just the opposite. He was too much, That kind of love is the kind that traps you. And I'm not ready for it yet.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“First I thought she was crazy. Now I'm crazy about her.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“People annoy the crap out of me," he says. "I think people are nervous and loud and rude and selfish and stupid pretty much all the time."
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"If they're beautiful they know it, so they don't bother having a personality or associating with people that don't fit into their league or can't afford their company. And, somehow these people are the most popular, which makes absolutely no sense. People try so hard to be accepted, they turn into a walking stereotype. They're pathetically easy to predict. They're insecure and try to mask it with whatever product corporate America is currently making and they always let you down. Just give them enough time, and they will."
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"I think everyone's caught up in these narrow-minded worlds and they think their world exists in the center of the universe. Relationship only happen when it's convenient. You have to walk on eggshells for people because that's how strong they are these days. And you can't confront people, because if you do, that brittle shell of confidence will crack. So we all become passive cowards that carry a fake smile wherever we go because God forbid you let your guard down long enough for people to see your life isn't perfect. That you have a few flaws. Because who wants to see that?”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love

“I don't know for sure where I'm going to end up.
But I know who I love. And I'm figuring out that might be enough to live for.”
― Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love