Love You, Finally Quotes

“Do you ever find yourself reminiscing about the girl you used to be? I used to do it all the time, and depending on my mood – I’d either smile or cringe. I went through phases where, on the outside, I was the ‘everything’s gonna be okay’ type of girl. I comforted my friends and family. I was intelligent, confident, and strong, but in private, I hated myself. You see, I was adopted into what many consider the perfect family, and while I can say that I was raised in a loving home, there still wasn't enough love in the world that could’ve convinced me that I was enough. There wasn’t enough love in the world to make me believe I was loveable. Although my adoptive parents gave me all of their love, there wasn’t enough love in the world that could make me stop craving the love of my birth mother. It's taken me a very long time to accept myself. It’s taken years to win the war between who I am versus the crippling insecurities that made me hate myself. I’d love to be the perfect woman without flaws or insecurities, but this isn’t Barbie’s Dreamhouse. So, I apologize in advance for my inconsistency, at times. I apologize in advance for my mood swings. I apologize in advance for my immaturity. I apologize for my stupidity. I apologize for my moments of low self-esteem. I apologize for my lingering self-doubt. And I apologize for believing that I wasn’t good enough. I’m still a work in progress, and one day, I’ll even be confident enough to stop apologizing, but in the meantime, please bear with me. Growth doesn’t always happen in a straight line, nor does it happen overnight, so I thank you in advance for this difficult journey that we're about to embark on together, and I hope you can grow to love me as I’ve finally grown to love myself.”
― Lauren Lacey, Love You, Finally

“Growth doesn’t always happen in a straight line, nor does it happen overnight, so I thank you in advance for this difficult journey that we're about to embark on together, and I hope you can grow to love me as I’ve finally grown to love myself.”
― Lauren Lacey, Love You, Finally

“And when I believe in it for myself, I’m always abruptly reminded that I’m not one of the lucky ones. As much as I try to take what I want – take what I believe I deserve, life laughs in my face. But now, after years of lost time, regrets, fear, and therapy, I’m ready to laugh back.”
― Lauren Lacey, Love You, Finally

“But I haven’t felt love like that in such a long time. Now, don’t get me wrong; I’ve been loved on. People have loved me, but I haven’t fallen in love. I want to fall so hard it hurts. I want to hurt so bad for someone that it consumes me because that same hurt is accompanied by love’s comfort,”
― Lauren Lacey, Love You, Finally

“convinced that he never will. Going from best friends to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and back to best friends isn’t ideal. I don’t even think it’s realistic, but it’s my reality, and I hate it. Every time I think about happiness, I see Deacon’s face. Every time I think of peace, I hear Deacon’s voice. Every time I panic, I imagine being wrapped in his embrace. Every time I cry, I think of every moment he’s been there to console me. Every time I think about love, I think about our lives together.”
― Lauren Lacey, Love You, Finally