The Heart of the 5 Love Languages Quotes

“Sometimes our words are saying one thing, but our tone of voice is saying another. We are sending double messages. Our spouse will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice, not the words we use.”
― Gary Chapman, The Heart of the 5 Love Languages

“In the context of marriage, if we do not feel loved, our differences are magnified. We come to view each other as a threat to our happiness. We fight for self-worth and significance, and marriage becomes a battlefield rather than a haven.”
― Gary Chapman, The Heart of the 5 Love Languages

“No person should ever be a doormat. Love says, “I love you too much to let you treat me this way. It is not good for you or me.”
― Gary Chapman, The Heart of the 5 Love Languages

“If I choose justice and seek to pay my spouse back or make her pay for her wrongdoing, I am making myself the judge and her the felon. Intimacy becomes impossible. If, however, I choose to forgive, intimacy can be restored. Forgiveness is the way of love.”
― Gary Chapman, The Heart of the 5 Love Languages