The Art of Mending Quotes

“There are random moments - tossing a salad, coming up the driveway to the house, ironing the seams flat on a quilt square, standing at the kitchen window and looking out at the delphiniums, hearing a burst of laughter from one of my children's rooms - when I feel a wavelike rush of joy. This is my true religion: arbitrary moments of of nearly painful happiness for a life I feel privileged to lead.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“You are born into your family and your family is born into you. No returns. No exchanges.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“As for mending, I think its good to take the time to fix something rather than throw it away. Its an antidote to wastefulness and to the need for immediate gratification. You get to see a whole process through, beginning to end, nothing abstract about it. You'll always notice the fabric scar, of course, but there's an art to mending. If you're careful, the repair can actually add to the beauty of the think because it is a testimony to its worth.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“*We give so little when it's in us always to give so much more.

It's bothering to listen with an open heart to someone who smells bad. It's hard.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“There are certain things in your life that will become every important to you. You might not be able to explain to anyone else why they're important. But you will expect the people who love you, the people who are your family, to respect those things.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“...And indeed it did take me a long time for me to find someone I wanted to marry. But I'm so glad I waited. What I know about Pete and me is that the flame will never go out. I do not look up from tossing the salad and think, Oh, God, how the hell did I ever get here? I do not look a the back of his head and think, I don't know you at all. I wake up with my pal, and go to sleep with my lover. He still thrills me, not only sexually but because of the way he regards the life that unfolds around him. I am interested in what he says about me and the children and our respective jobs, but I am also interested in what he says about the Middle East and the migratory patterns of monarchs and the amount of nutmeg that should be grated into the mashed potatoes and the impact that being a thwarted artist had on the life of Hitler. I believe he is a truly honest and awake and kind individual. If we live more than once, I want to find him again.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“Nobody knows what goes on in other families, because families lie about themselves to other people. Not only to other people but to one another. And to themselves.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“Every mother has the assurance that her baby will love her. But a baby has no assurance at all of being loved in return.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“You know your parents are going to die, but they are going to die later. They are going to die sometime. But that time will not come until you no longer need them. While you still need them, or might need them, they will have the good taste and”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“As for mending, I think it’s good to take the time to fix something rather than throw it away. It’s an antidote to wastefulness and to the need for immediate gratification. You get to see a whole process through, beginning to end, nothing abstract about it. You’ll always notice the fabric scar, of course, but there’s an art to mending: If you’re careful, the repair can actually add to the beauty of the thing, because it is testimony to its worth.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“For a long time, we have known that sometimes it serves you best simply to work around an obstacle, to make invisible what you are tired of seeing or don't understand.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“...(we) laughed. It was so good to laugh. I felt as though I too were reentering my legitimate self.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“Don't ask so many questions. You always ask so many questions. Don't do that. Just...accept things.

...Don't ask questions and don't look back. Believe me you'll be much more content.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending

“This is my true religion: arbitrary moments of nearly painful happiness for a life I feel privileged to lead.”
― Elizabeth Berg, The Art of Mending