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Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love by Amir Levine
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“Fortunately, Marsha went on to meet someone with whom she has a happy life.”
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“I'm grateful that he kept his word.”
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“I was afraid I'd never have the strength to leave him first.”
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“Time after time when I mustered the courage to leave, Craig would convince me to stay.”
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“Though I felt trapped, I still couldn't extract myself from the nightmare.”
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“I said, "It was nice," in a pathetically feeble tone. What a miserable way to describe one's honeymoon.”
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“I said, "It was nice," in a pathetically feeble tone. What a miserable way to describe someone's honeymoon.”
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“I realized I was powerless to change him.”
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“We had plenty of time to enjoy ourselves, but Craig turned everything into a problem.”
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“What more of an omen did I need?”
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“I still wanted to marry him.”
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“No one has a perfect relationship, you have to compromise on something.”
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“In my mind, I tried to compensate, but as time went on my thinking became more and more distorted.”
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“The comfort of the cuddling would reduce the pain of feeling rejected.”
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“The affection allowed me to pretend I was satisfied.”
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“Despite his words, Craig was very affectionate.”
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“I was so deeply ashamed of the way Craig treated me - of the way I let him treat me.”
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“It was always about him. We always did what he wanted; his opinions mattered more - in everything.”
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“My denial required me to put up with a lot.”
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“I became adept at rationalizing that he “just didn’t know any better.” If his behaviour was learnt, I could hope, think, possibly even expect, that he could unlearn it and change.”
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“I’d justify his behaviour, convincing myself that he wasn’t to blame.”
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“I kept asking him not to speak to me that way, but eventually I gave up.”
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“He’d tell me that he loved me and I’d let him convince me that we should be together.
Did he love me? Maybe. He’d tell me so almost every day.”
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“I was never able to follow through.”
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“There were occasions I'd swear to myself that I couldn't take his behaviour anymore.”
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“My words would go in one ear and out the other.”
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“He seemed emotionally handicapped in some way.”
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“It didn't even occur to me that his words might be offensive - as far as he was concerned, he was just making an observation.”
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“I took his disparaging remarks to heart, and at times would even put myself down.”
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“My confidence in my appearance was another story. I felt insecure about my looks.”
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