Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life Quotes

“If it is not tempered by compassion, and empathy, reason can lead men and women into a moral void. (95)”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“We can either emphasize those aspects of our traditions, religious or secular, that speak of hatred, exclusion, and suspicion or work with those that stress the interdependence and equality of all human beings. The choice is yours. (22)”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“[T]he family is a school of compassion because it is here that we learn to live with other people. (68)”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Saint Augustine … insisted that scripture taught nothing but charity. Whatever the biblical author may have intended, any passage that seemed to preach hatred and was not conducive to love must be interpreted allegorically and made to speak of charity.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Compassion impels us to work tirelessly to alleviate the suffering of our fellow creatures, to dethrone ourselves from the centre of our world and put another there, and to honour the inviolable sanctity of every single human being, treating everybody, without exception, with absolute justice, equity and respect.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“As we develop our compassionate mind, we should feel an increasing sense of responsibility for the suffering of others and form a resolve to do everything we can to free them from their pain.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Compassion dervies from the Latin patiri and the Greek pathein, meaning "to suffer, undergo or experience." So "compassion" means "to endure [something] with another person," to put ourselves in somebody else's shoes, to feel her pain as though it were our own, and to enter generously into his point of view. That is why our hearts, discover what gives us pain, and then refuse, under any circumstance whatsoever, to inflict that pain on anybody else. Compassion can be defined, therefore, as an attitude of principled, consistent altruism.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“We have a duty to get to know one another, and to cultivate a concern and responsibility for all our neighbors in the global village.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“And before you embark on an argument or a debate, ask yourself honestly if you are ready to change your mind.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Remember that in a threatening environment, the human brain becomes permanently organized for aggression.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Remember that we can become twinned with an enemy and come to resemble him. Our hatred may become an alter ego, a part of our identity.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“the anonymous Chinese author we know as Laozi pointed out that no matter how good his intentions, violence always recoils upon the perpetrator.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“The people we hate haunt us; they inhabit our minds in a negative way as we brood in a deviant form of meditation on their bad qualities. The enemy thus becomes our twin, a shadow self whom we come to resemble.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“People who have been taught to despise themselves cannot easily respect others.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Golden rule is not a notional doctrine that you either agree with, or make yourself believe in. It is a method and the only adequate test of any method is to put it into practice.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“The Golden Rule requires self-knowledge; it asks that we use our own feelings as a guide to our behavior with others. If we treat ourselves harshly, this is the way we are likely to treat other people. So we need to acquire a healthier and more balanced knowledge of our strengths as well as our weaknesses. As”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“The implications for politics were immense. If instead of ruthlessly pursuing his own self-interest to the detriment of others, a ruler would "curb his ego and submit to li for a single day," Confucius believed, "everyone under Heaven would respond to his goodness!”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“A truly compassionate person touches a chord in us that resonates with some of our deepest yearnings. People flock to such individuals, because they seem to offer a haven of peace in a violent, angry world. This is the ideal to which we aspire, and it is not beyond our capacity. But even if we achieve only a fraction of this enlightenment and leave the world marginally better because we have lived in it, our lives will have been worthwhile.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“A person who is impartial, fair, calm, gentle, serene, accepting, and openhearted is indeed a refuge.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“the attempt to become a compassionate human being is a lifelong project.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“our version of the same event is also likely to be a reflection upon our own situation and suffering rather than a dispassionate and wholly factual account. We”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Martin Luther King Jr. believed that the highest point of Jesus’s life was the moment when he forgave his executioners,”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“true insight does not consist of the acquisition of information but comes from mastering our egotism and greed.5”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“The good leader in war is not warlike The good fighter is not impetuous; The best conqueror of the enemy is he who never takes the offensive. The man who gets the most out of men is the one who treats them with humility.3 Tyrants”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Everything that goes up must come down: that is a law of life, so to strengthen your enemy by yielding to him would actually hasten his decline. The”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“Enmity shapes our consciousness and identity.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“we sometimes fail to recognize the signs of poverty, loneliness, grief, fear, and desolation in our own city, our own village, or our own family.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“what Tibetan Buddhists call “the inability to bear the sight of another’s sorrow,” so that we feel it almost as intensely as we feel our own. We”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“But Christina never forgot that “when I was a child, I needed only one person to understand my suffering and pain.… One is very important.”5”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

“A double standard, albeit unintended, violates our integrity and damages our credibility. In a global society, conflict is rarely the fault of only one party.”
― Karen Armstrong, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life