On Managing Yourself Quotes

“Like employees, children build self-esteem by doing things that are hard and learning what works.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“When we see people acting in an abusive, arrogant, or demeaning manner toward others, their behavior almost always is a symptom of their lack of self-esteem. They need to put someone else down to feel good about themselves.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Successful careers are not planned. They develop when people are prepared for opportunities because they know their strengths, their method of work, and their values. Knowing where one belongs can transform an ordinary person—hardworking and competent but otherwise mediocre—into an outstanding performer.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Your decisions about allocating your personal time, energy, and talent ultimately shape your life’s strategy. I have a bunch”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Put yourself where your strengths can produce results.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“The lesson I learned from this is that it’s easier to hold to your principles 100% of the time than it is to hold to them 98% of the time.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“If you’re not guided by a clear sense of purpose, you’re likely to fritter away your time and energy on obtaining the most tangible, short-term signs of achievement, not what’s really important to you. And”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Depressed, ruthless bosses create toxic organizations filled with negative underachievers. But if you’re an upbeat, inspirational leader, you cultivate positive employees who embrace and surmount even the toughest challenges.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“emotional intelligence is carried through an organization like electricity through wires. To”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Resilient people and companies face reality with staunchness, make meaning of hardship instead of crying out in despair, and improvise solutions from thin air.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Wherever there is success, there has to be failure.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Don’t worry about the level of individual prominence you have achieved; worry about the individuals you have helped become better people. This is my final recommendation:”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“organizations need to shift their emphasis from getting more out of people to investing more in them, so they are motivated—and able—to bring more of themselves to work every day.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“The only way to discover your strengths is through feedback analysis. Whenever you make a key decision or take a key action, write down what you expect will happen.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“To work in an organization whose value system is unacceptable or incompatible with one’s own condemns a person both to frustration and to nonperformance.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Do your organization’s ethics resonate with your own values? If not, your career will likely be marked by frustration and poor performance.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“More than education, more than experience, more than training, a person’s level of resilience will determine who succeeds and who fails. That’s true in the cancer ward, it’s true in the Olympics, and it’s true in the boardroom.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“a planner may find that his beautiful plans fail because he does not follow through on them. Like so many brilliant people, he believes that ideas move mountains. But bulldozers move mountains; ideas show where the bulldozers should go to work.”
― Harvard Business Publishing, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“If you’re not guided by a clear sense of purpose, you’re likely to fritter away your time and energy on obtaining the most tangible, short-term signs of achievement, not what’s really important to you.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“the most powerful motivator isn’t money; it’s the opportunity to learn, grow in responsibilities, contribute, and be recognized.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Don’t worry about the level of individual prominence you have achieved; worry about the individuals you have helped become better people. This is my final recommendation: Think about the metric by which your life will be judged, and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be judged a success.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Fostering connections and reducing fear promote brainpower.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Never in history has the human brain been asked to track so many data points. Everywhere, people rely on their cell phones, e-mail, and digital assistants in the race to gather and transmit data, plans, and ideas faster and faster. One could argue that the chief value of the modern era is speed, which the novelist Milan Kundera described as “the form of ecstasy that technology has bestowed upon modern man.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Negative emotions—especially fear—can hamper productive brain functioning. To promote positive feelings, especially during highly stressful times, interact directly with someone you like at least every four to six hours. In environments where people are in physical contact with people they trust, brain functioning hums.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“ADT isn’t an illness or character defect. It’s our brains’ natural response to exploding demands on our time and attention. As data increasingly floods our brains, we lose our ability to solve problems and handle the unknown. Creativity shrivels; mistakes multiply. Some sufferers eventually melt down.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Whether they learn it from their family, school, or athletics, many people establish an identity by comparing themselves with others. When they see others gain power, information, money, or recognition, for instance, they experience what the psychologist Abraham Maslow called “a feeling of deficiency”—a sense that something is being taken from them. That makes it hard for them to be genuinely happy about the success of others—even of their loved ones.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Vision and Priorities In the press of day-to-day activities, leaders often fail to adequately communicate their vision to the organization, and in particular, they don’t communicate it in a way that helps their subordinates determine where to focus their own efforts. How often do I communicate a vision for my business? Have I identified and communicated three to five key priorities to achieve that vision? If asked, would my employees be able to articulate the vision and priorities?”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“It’s crucial to take a sense of humility into the world. By the time you make it to a top graduate school, almost all your learning has come from people who are smarter and more experienced than you: parents, teachers, bosses. But once you’ve finished at Harvard Business School or any other top academic institution, the vast majority of people you’ll interact with on a day-to-day basis may not be smarter than you. And if your attitude is that only smarter people have something to teach you, your learning opportunities will be very limited.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“And our careers provide the most concrete evidence that we’re moving forward. You ship a product, finish a design, complete a presentation, close a sale, teach a class, publish a paper, get paid, get promoted. In contrast, investing time and energy in your relationship with your spouse and children typically doesn’t offer that same immediate sense of achievement. Kids misbehave every day. It’s really not until 20 years down the road that you can put your hands on your hips and say, “I raised a good son or a good daughter.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself

“Bosses are neither a title on the organization chart nor a “function.” They are individuals and are entitled to do their work in the way they do it best. It is incumbent on the people who work with them to observe them, to find out how they work, and to adapt themselves to what makes their bosses most effective. This, in fact, is the secret of “managing” the boss.”
― Harvard Business School Press, HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself