The Saving Graces Quotes

“I hate jealousy. At least it's its own punishment; it makes me feel like hell.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“laughter is cathartic and cleansing, that it's good for the body and the soul, and when it's real it's better than sex.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“You were the best thing in my life … I did love you. I do. As much as I’ve ever loved anyone, as much as I can. It feels like a lot – it takes up my whole heart.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“I love the slow, warming sensation of my body going numb when I drink.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Little things. The thought of losing them makes them unbearably dear ... I only think of the sweetness. Simple things. The quarter moon, the taste of an orange. The smell of the pages of a new book.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“All my life I've wanted to tell people I love them. Fear usually held me back, that they wouldn't care, or they wouldn't hear, or they would take too much from me once they knew.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Bad news doesn't hurt as much, if you hear it in good company. It's like, if somebody pushes you out of a 5th floor window and you bounce off an awning, a car roof, and a pile of plastic garbage bags before you smash onto the pavement, you've got a pretty good chance of surviving.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Never throw love away, never neglect it. Never assume you'll find better love somewhere else. Take it wherever you're lucky enough to find it, and always try to return it in kind. Don't take so much for granted.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“I was thinking in a Scottish brogue, because I'd just heard this guy interviewed on NPR, Lonnie McSomething.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Imagine me maintaining anybody's equilibrium.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“I was small enough to mind that Rudy had a good friend other than me.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Topics... are what people talk about when they don't know each other well. Topics... are what men talk about.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Fear kills. Protecting yourself backfires eventually. And living in fear of pain isn't really living at all.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Misery alternates with euphoria.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Isabel never despaired, even though I think she knew everything that was going to happen, right from the beginning. There was a Walt Whitman poem she liked, especially the part that went - 'All goes onward and outward,/Nothing collapses/And to die is different from/What anyone supposes/And Luckier.' She tried to believe that, and it gave her some comfort, I know. She was very brave. Always. She hid her anguish and sadness, although I know she felt them. Because she wasn't losing only one person she loved - as we have. She was losing all of them.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“I just tried to put myself in her place and figure out what would be the scariest thing. If I thought I might be dying. And it was being alone' ... 'To me,' she said, 'the scariest thing is oblivion. Being, and then not being.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Ultimately, in the very grand scheme of things, it’s irrelevant whether my life lasts fifty more years, or five. Or two. The point is to live it, not wait through it. And I’m alive now—I can pick flowers, pet the dog, eat cinnamon toast. How foolish I would be to let my mortality, which has been there all along, since the second of my birth, spoil my love of these things. So I won’t. I’ll have to remind myself constantly, but starting now, I intend to live until I die.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“An informed customer is a satisfied one.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces

“Skepticism is luxury.”
― Patricia Gaffney, The Saving Graces