My Spiritual Journey Quotes

“Historically, the East was more concerned with understanding the mind and the West was more involved in understanding matter.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey

“It seems important to me to distinguish between religion and spirituality. Religion implies a system of beliefs based on metaphysical foundations, along with the teaching of dogmas, rituals, or prayers. Spirituality, however, corresponds to the development of human qualities such as love, compassion, patience, tolerance, forgiveness, or a sense of responsibility. These inner qualities, which are a source of happiness for oneself and for others, are independent of any religion. That is why I have sometimes stated that one can do without religion, but not without spirituality. And an altruistic motivation is the unifying element of the qualities that I define as spiritual.  ”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“You must understand that even if your adversaries seem to be harming you, in the end their destrucive activity will turn against them.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey

“We must realize that when basic needs have been met, human development is primarily about being more, not having more….”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“There is a veil of gravity in his eyes, but no sadness. In a confidential tone, he speaks about this lama who had been close to him and was just a little older. His death is a reminder of impermanence, in the Buddhist sense, which asserts the transitory quality of sentient beings and phenomena. Everything that is born from causes and conditions is perishable. Impermanence contradicts our feeling of the lasting quality of time and our human desire for immortality. It is unbearable for ordinary beings who have not trained their mind to conceive of the world's absence of reality. Denial of impermanence represents one of the main causes of suffering in our existences. Buddhist teachings invite us to contemplate and accept it.”
― Sofia Stril-Rever, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“And a compassionate person creates a warm, relaxed atmosphere of welcome and understanding around him. In human relations, compassion contributes to promoting peace and harmony.  ”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Spirituality, however, corresponds to the development of human qualities such as love, compassion, patience, tolerance, forgiveness, or a sense of responsibility.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Compassion, what I sometimes also call human affection, is the determining factor of our life. Connected to the palm of the hand, the five fingers become functional; cut off from it, they are useless. Similarly, every human action becomes dangerous when it is deprived of human feeling. When they are performed with feeling and respect for human values, all activities become constructive.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“The more concerned we are with the happiness of others, the more we increase our own well-being.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“I pray for a world that is more friendly, More loving, and for a better understanding Among the human family, on this planet. That is the appeal I make from the bottom of my heart To all those who hate suffering And cherish lasting happiness.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“I believe that at all levels of society—family, national, and international—the key to a better, happier world is greater compassion. It is not necessary to become religious, or to believe in an ideology. The important thing is to develop our human qualities as much as we can. I try to treat every person I meet like an old friend, and that gives me a real sensation of happiness.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Whoever transforms himself, transforms the world.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“exists independent of its appearances. Our perception of time also rests on a mistaken apprehension of reality. What in fact is the past? The past is not a reality; it’s just a concept. The future corresponds to projections, anticipations that do not have any reality either. The past has already occurred; the future does not yet exist. These notions affect us as realities, although they have no substance. The present is the truth that we are experiencing here and now, but it is an elusive reality that does not last. We find ourselves in a paradoxical situation in which the present constitutes a border, a limit between a past and a future without any concrete reality. The present is that elusive moment between what no longer exists and what has not yet happened.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“If you take the negative as absolute and definitive, however, you increase your worries and anxiety, whereas by broadening the way you look at a problem, you understand what is bad about it, but you accept it. This attitude comes to me, I think, from my practice and from Buddhist philosophy, which help me enormously.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“True compassion does not stem from the pleasure of feeling close to one person or another, but from the conviction that other people are just like me and want not to suffer but to be happy, and from a commitment to help them overcome what causes them to suffer. I must realize that I can help them suffer less. That is true, well thought-out compassion.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“So when one person’s attitude changes, the other person is often disappointed, and his own attitude changes as a result. That is a sign that love was motivated more from personal need than from an authentic concern for the loved one. Real compassion is not just an emotional response; it is a firm, thought-out commitment. Therefore, an authentic attitude of compassion does not change, even faced with another person’s negative behavior.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“No material object, no matter how beautiful or precious it is, can give us the feeling of being loved, because our deeper identity, our true character, is rooted in the subjective nature of the mind.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“NO MATTER WHAT PART OF THE WORLD we come from, fundamentally we are all the same human beings. We all seek happiness and want to avoid suffering. We all have essentially the same needs and similar concerns. As human beings, we all want to be free, to have the right to decide our own destiny as individuals as well as the destiny of our people. That is human nature. The problems that confront us today are created by man, whether they are violent conflicts, destruction of the environment, poverty, or hunger. These problems can be resolved thanks to human efforts, by understanding that we are brothers and sisters and by developing this sense of fraternity. We must cultivate a universal responsibility toward each other and extend it to the planet that we have to share. I feel optimistic that the ancient values that have sustained mankind are reaffirming themselves today, preparing the way for a better, happier twenty-first century. I pray for all of us, oppressor and friend, so that together we can succeed in building a better world through mutual understanding and love, and that in doing so we may reduce the pain and suffering of all sentient beings.3 On December 10, 1989, the Dalai Lama’s Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech, quoted in part above, was broadcast throughout the world. The cause of Tibet had become international. But it was not as the leader of a government in exile, or as a Tibetan, that the Dalai Lama accepted the Nobel Prize. He shared this distinction as a human being with all those who recognize each other’s basic human values. By claiming his humanity in the universal language of the heart, which goes beyond ideological rifts and notions of cultural identity, the Dalai Lama gave us back our humanity. In Oslo on December 10, 1989, we all received the Nobel Peace Prize.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Human beings are children of the Earth. Whereas our common Mother Earth has tolerated our conduct up to now, she is showing us at present that we have reached the limits of what is tolerable.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“perceptions, our ways of thinking, and our behavior. It is a question of bringing about a complete reversal of mental habits by reducing emotions in a gradual process of study, reflection, and meditation—in other words, familiarization. That is how we refine the mind and purify it through a training that actualizes its potential. We learn to master the stream of our consciousness, to control the emotional obscurations, without letting ourselves be dominated by them. That is the path toward realization of the absolute nature. Our practice integrates all the aspects and all the various levels of the Buddha’s teaching.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“After all, all human beings are the same—made up of flesh, bone, and blood. We all want happiness, and we all try to avoid suffering. We are the members of one single human family, and our arguments are born from secondary causes. Disputes, lies, and killings are useless.  ”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“I am a professional laugher”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Of course problems are there. But thinking only of the negative aspect doesn’t help to find solutions, and it destroys peace of mind. Everything, though, is relative. You can see the positive side of even the worst of tragedies if you adopt a holistic perspective. If you take the negative as absolute and definitive, however, you increase your worries and anxiety, whereas by broadening the way you look at a problem, you understand what is bad about it, but you accept it.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“OUR LIFE DEPENDS ON OTHERS so much that at the root of our existence there is a fundamental need for love. That is why it is good to cultivate an authentic sense of our responsibility and a sincere concern for the welfare of others.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“calling for a spiritual revolution that is also an ethical revolution, urge us to acknowledge that humanity is one, in conformity with the Buddhist principle of interdependence. The awareness that everything is connected in the participatory reality of life is expressed on the individual level by compassion and on the collective level by universal responsibility”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Real compassion is not just an emotional response; it is a firm, thought-out commitment. Therefore, an authentic attitude of compassion does not change, even faced with another person’s negative behavior.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Transforming the mind involves first learning to know it, then identifying how it functions so as to eliminate the three main mental poisons, which are ignorance, desire, and hatred.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“When you have an itch, you scratch yourself. But not having an itch at all is better than scratching yourself for a long time.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“In contemporary materialistic society, if you have money and power, you have the impression of having a lot of friends. But they aren’t your friends; they are the friends of your money and power.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks

“Recently, I met a group of American scientists who said that the percentage of mental illness in their country was quite high—about 12 percent of the population. From the discussion, it emerged clearly that the main cause was not lack of material resources but a lack of affection.”
― Dalai Lama XIV, My Spiritual Journey: Personal Reflections, Teachings, and Talks