Created to be His Help Meet Quotes

“If you are a wife, you were created to fill a need, and in that capacity you are a “good thing,” a helper suited to the needs of a man. This is how God created you and it is your purpose for existing. You are, by nature, equipped in every way to be your man’s helper. You are inferior to none as long as you function within your created nature, for no man can do your job, and no man is complete without his wife. You were created to make him complete, not to seek personal fulfillment parallel to him. A”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“You serve Christ by serving your husband, whether your husband deserves it or not.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“No man has ever crawled out from under his wife’s criticism to be a better man—no matter how justified her condemnation.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“You are created to be your husband’s helper, not his conscience, not his vocation director, and certainly not his critic.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“It doesn’t take a good man, or even a saved man, for a woman to have a heavenly marriage, but it does take a woman willing to honor God by being the kind of wife God intended. It”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“Our delight in each other did not happen because he is the perfect man, or because he “loves me like Christ loves the church,” or because he is “sensitive to all my needs.” It didn’t happen because he takes the trash out, or cleans up after himself, or has always made a good living, providing me with all the things most women take for granted. It didn’t happen because he is a strong spiritual leader and always does the right thing. It happened and continues to happen because of the choices I make every day. I never have a chip on my shoulder, no matter how offended I have a right to be—and I do have reasons to be offended regularly. Every day, I remember to view myself as the woman God gave this man. This mind-set helps me be just that: a gift, a playmate, his helper.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“Discontentment is not a product of circumstances; it is the state of the soul. Remember,”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“Many women think their husbands are not worth the effort. They feel they are forced to humble themselves in order to love him when he is the guilty party. Do not be deceived. When a woman is willing to forgive and win back her husband’s affection, she is winning more than just his affection. Once a man comes to his senses and sees how close he came to losing all that he holds dear, he will be profoundly thankful to the good woman who loved him through his foolishness. She will win his respect as well as his love, because he will know that she is the kind of woman who will stand by her man. Few”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“Just remember, you are fighting a woman who is in the dime-a-dozen class. They are everywhere, ready to steal away the heart of the man who feels uncared for and unappreciated. The tool of your warfare is your loving, kind, delightful, radiant, adoring self.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“I have listened to the longest-faced women trying to assure me that they do indeed have the joy of the Lord, and I sat there wondering where in the world they were hiding it. The”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“A woman trying to function like a man is as ridiculous as a man trying to be like a woman. A unisex society is a senseless society—a society dangerously out of order.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“A wise woman doesn’t take anything for granted. She is thankful to be loved and seeks to make herself more lovely.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“He must answer to God for how he leads his “troops.” You must answer to God for how you obey the one he placed over you.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to Be His Help Meet: Discover how God can make your marriage glorious

“Ask God to help you know and appreciate your man. Pray that God will give you the wisdom and grace to share your man’s dreams so it will always be you that he dreams about.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to Be His Help Meet: Discover how God can make your marriage glorious

“God, I know your Word teaches me to be a woman who is there to help meet all my husband’s desires and dreams. Make me that woman.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to Be His Help Meet: Discover how God can make your marriage glorious

“While Abraham was learning to obey God, Sarah was learning to obey her husband, and God was busy doing miracles for both of them. God chose Sarah as surely as he chose Abraham. It took an obedient woman to become the mother of a great nation. Sarah”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“earth. They will go to their graves unloved and uncherished, a total failure as the woman God called them to be. Wisdom allows us the ability to use our minds and spirits to handle small problems with grace and honor. To those of you who are enduring verbal and physical abuse, we realize that statistically, you are likely to remain with your husband. It is therefore important that you understand how to speak and conduct yourself in a way that will maintain your physical and emotional safety and ultimately win your husband. The Bible”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“As a Christian you have a desire and a duty to be honest in all things, but you must honor your husband as you do so. So, if you cannot sign your name to a document that would make you a liar, you must refuse to do so with grace and humility. There may be other ways to deal with it. Perhaps you could file separate tax returns, whereby you wouldn’t be required to sign his returns, and then you wouldn’t be involved in how he conducts his business.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“You are what you think, and God tells you how to think: Think the truth. this is not the power of positive thinking; this is the power of the truth as God defines it.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“He practices his faults, and you practice your bitterness. You are both practicing divorce.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“When God gave Eve to Adam, he was giving him a helper, not a conscience. Adam already had a conscience before his wife was created.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“This lady believed she could force her husband to submit because she was “spiritually anointed.” She did not reckon on God. A woman who thinks she can walk her own way because she believes herself spiritually gifted has no fear of Almighty God.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“(I Sam. 15:23). When a woman attempts to live for God contrary to his Word, her “spirituality” is equal to witchcraft, because she is attempting to “divine” the will of God in total disregard of his clear written words. God calls such a woman “Jezebel.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“She was totally deceived into thinking that her female intuition, sensitivity, and passions were spirituality. She had no idea that she was a woman in total rebellion against God.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“Women who can’t be close to their husbands have a propensity to develop a self-absorbing, spiritual intimacy with spiritual leaders—be they men or women.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“Joy begins with thankfulness. Quite often our attitudes hang in the balance; by making a conscious choice, we can tip our souls into dark moods of complaining, or into thankfulness and praise. It is amazing how much your mouth controls your soul. You”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. And having food and raiment let us be therewith content” (I Tim. 6:6-8).”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“help meet. But who said anything about what he deserves? You can only realize your womanhood when you are functioning according to your created nature. To covet his role of leadership is to covet something that will not make God, you, or him happy. It is not a question of whether or not you can do a better job than he; it is a matter of doing what you were “designed” to do. If you successfully do the job of leading the family, you will not find satisfaction in it. It is far better that the job be done poorly by your husband than to be done well by you. Your excellence as a help meet to him may very well be God’s plan for improving his leadership role in the family. Your female nature cannot be retrofitted to the male role without permanent damage to the original design.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“When you honor your husband, you honor God. When you obey your husband, you obey God. The degree to which you reverence your husband is the degree to which you reverence your Creator. As we serve our husbands, we serve God. But in the same way, when you dishonor your husband, you dishonor God.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet

“You are inferior to none as long as you function within your created nature, for no man can do your job, and no man is complete without his wife. You were created to make him complete, not to seek personal fulfillment parallel to him. A woman trying to function like a man is as ridiculous as a man trying to be like a woman. A unisex society is a senseless society—a society dangerously out of order. When you are a help meet to your husband, you are a helper to Christ.”
― Debi Pearl, Created to be His Help Meet