Practicing the Way Quotes

“The single most important question is, Are we becoming more loving? Not, Are we becoming more biblically educated? Or practicing more spiritual disciplines? Or more involved in church? Those are all good things, but not the most important thing.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“For those of us who desire to follow Jesus, here is the reality we must turn and face: If we’re not being intentionally formed by Jesus himself, then it’s highly likely we are being unintentionally formed by someone or something else.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“There simply is no better way, truth, or life to be found than that of Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“For Jesus, salvation is less about getting you into heaven and more about getting heaven into you.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Following Jesus is not a three-step formula: be with him, become like him, and so on. But there is a sequence. It is not a program but a progression. First, you come and be with Jesus; gradually you start to become like him; eventually, it's like you can't help it - you begin to do the kinds of things he did in the world. We see this progression in the stories of the original disciples: They spent months or possibly years just following him around Israel and sitting at his feet. Very slowly they began to change, and eventually, he "sent them out" to preach.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“Jesus isn’t asking you to do something you’re not already doing. All of us are abiding. The question isn’t, Are you abiding? It’s, What are you abiding in?”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Contemplative prayer isn't looking to get anything from God; it's just looking at God. "I look at Him, He looks at me, and we are happy." Few of us even realize this type of prayer is a possibility. It's this deeper layer of prayer that I find both most challenging and most rewarding. Challenging not because it's unpleasant (the opposite, in fact) but because it requires the very capacity of which our world schemes to rob me: attention.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“The undirected mind tends toward chaos.” The psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi called this phenomenon “psychic entropy.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“You can’t follow Jesus alone. Not “shouldn’t”; can’t. It’s not even an option. Jesus didn’t have a disciple; he had disciples, plural. He called people to apprentice under him in community.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The problem is: Human beings resist facing reality. The human capacity for self-deception is staggering. But when it comes to sin, ignorance is not bliss. It’s a cancer metastasizing through our bloodstreams. The diagnosis is essential to the cure. Over a millennia and a half ago, Evagrius Ponticus said, “The beginning of salvation is to condemn oneself.” He was just saying that until we name our sin and open our wound to God, we can’t be saved from it.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Come, follow me.[11] Contrary to what many assume, Jesus did not invite people to convert to Christianity. He didn’t even call people to become Christians (keep reading…); he invited people to apprentice under him into a whole new way of living. To be transformed. My thesis is simple: Transformation is possible if we are willing to arrange our lives around the practices, rhythms, and truths that Jesus himself did, which will open our lives to God’s power to change. Said another way, we can be transformed if we are willing to apprentice ourselves to Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“There are no accidental saints. You can't just slip your hand up at the end of a sermon. It's a high bar of entry: It will require you to reorder your entire life around following Jesus as your undisputed top priority, over your job, your money, your reputation - over everything. Yet all these things will find their rightful place once integrated into a life of apprenticeship.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“Amusing ourselves to death,” as the social critic Neil Postman called it, has never been more convenient.[3] You can disappear into the black hole of Netflix, become a workaholic in pursuit of riches or fame, or simply “eat, drink, and be merry” in the adult playground of the modern city. Western culture is arguably built around the denial of death through the coping mechanism of distraction. As Ronald Rolheiser put it, “We are distracting ourselves into spiritual oblivion.”[4]”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“After all, the opposite of contemplation is not action but reaction. It’s not a life that is active—doing good in the world, working hard, serving those in need. That’s exactly what you would expect to come from a life of abiding: fruit. The opposite of contemplation is a life that is reactive—getting sucked into the tyranny of the urgent instead of the important, chasing the latest fad, wasting our fleeting lives climbing some illusory corporate ladder, hurrying from one distraction to the next…”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Apprenticeship to Jesus is about turning your body into a temple, a place of overlap between heaven and earth—an advance sign of what one day Jesus will do for the entire cosmos, when heaven and earth are at long last reunited as one. This is the single most extraordinary opportunity in the entire universe: to let your body become God’s home. And it’s set before you every single day.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Work at its best is an expression of love. As the poet Kahlil Gibran put it, “Work is love made visible.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“It’s the very things we run from, avoid at all costs, dread, medicate, and deny that hold the secret to our liberation. These unhappy times of great emotional pain, in a beautifully redemptive turn, have the potential—if we open to God in them—to transform us into grounded, deeply joyful people. Suffering is sadness leaving the body.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The French philosopher Jacques Ellul once compared the Western obsession with “technique” to magic in the Middle Ages. It’s a modern form of superstition that’s all about trying to control what we cannot possibly control.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“There is simply no way to follow Jesus without unhurrying your life.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Paul called it prayer “without ceasing.”[13] The Spanish Carmelite Saint John of the Cross called it “silent love” and urged us to “remain in loving attention on God.” Madame Guyon—the French mystic—called it a “continuous inner act of abiding.” The old Quakers called it “centering down,”[14] as if abiding was getting in touch with the bedrock of all reality. The Jesuit spiritual director Jean-Pierre de Caussade called it “the sacrament of the present moment,” as if each moment with God is its own Eucharist, its own movable feast.[15] A. W. Tozer called it “habitual, conscious communion” and said, “At the heart of the Christian message is God Himself waiting for His redeemed children to push in to conscious awareness of His presence.”[16] Dallas Willard loved to call it “the with-God life.”[17] So many saints, with so many names for life with Jesus. But my undisputed favorite is from a monk named Brother Lawrence, who called this “the practice of the presence of God.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The deeper question here is, In whom are you trusting? Who (or what) do you put your faith in to show you the way to the life you desire? It’s my conviction that contrary to what we hear, living by faith isn’t a Christian thing or even a religious thing; it’s a human thing—we all live by faith. The question isn’t, Am I going to believe? It’s, Who or what am I going to believe in? Meaning, Who or what am I going to entrust my life to? Do I really want to trust myself—or any other human, for that matter? We creatures who seem to have gotten ourselves into the very mess we’re trying to fix?”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Much preaching of the gospel today does not call people to a life of discipleship. Following Jesus is seen as optional—a post-conversion “second track” for those who want to go further. Tragically, this has created a two-tier church, where a large swath of people who believe in God and even regularly attend church have not re-architected their daily lives on the foundation of apprenticeship to Jesus.[33]”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Would the people who know you best say you are becoming more loving, joyful, and at peace? More patient and less frustrated? Kinder, gentler, softening with time, and pervaded by goodness? Faithful, especially in hard times, and self-controlled?”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Not only does the practice of service have the potential to mend our fractured world; it has the power to mend us. This is one of the most surprising things about the discipline. You think you’re there to help others, but you quickly realize you’re the one being helped. You’re being set free of your ego, your entitlement, your self-obsession. When you serve in the Way of Jesus, the lines blur between servant and served, giver and recipient. Both give, and both receive. Dignity is restored in one; freedom won in the other.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“You see, Jesus is not looking for converts to Christianity; he’s looking for apprentices in the kingdom of God.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The problem is, in the West, we have created a cultural milieu where you can be a Christian but not an apprentice of Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The professor Craig Dykstra of Duke Divinity School once said, “The life of the Christian faith is the practice of many practices.”[21] What I’m calling “the practices,” most people call “the spiritual disciplines.”[22] My friend and co-worker Strahan calls them “altars of availability.” Ruth Haley Barton calls them “sacred rhythms”;[23] the late pastor Eugene Peterson, “rhythms of grace”;[24] Reformed theologians, “means of grace.”[25] But to translate into a more secular vernacular, they are essentially habits that are based on the life (read: lifestyle) of Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“When you do the math, you may conclude that, yes, following Jesus will cost you—a lot. But here’s the thing: Not following Jesus will cost you even more. It will cost you life with God, the very purpose for which you were created. It will cost you access to the inner life of the Trinity, the “peace…which transcends all understanding,” and the “joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory.”[17] It will cost you freedom from the bondage of sin, healing from the wounding of sin, forgiveness from the guilt and shame of sin, and adoption into the family of God out of the isolation of sin.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Run through your mental Rolodex of people past eighty: Most of them are either gracious, happy, grateful, patient, loving, self-giving people you know, just happy to be alive and sitting in the same room with you, or the most bitter, manipulative, spiteful people you know, oozing emotional poison into their family lines and reveling in others' pain. Sure, some are in the middle of the bell curve, but most are noticeably to one side.
That's because they've spent almost a century becoming a person. Being formed.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did