How To Stop Caring What Others Think Quotes

“let’s focus on cheerleading the effort and good choices they made.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“We have to stop caring what other people think of us. How other people see us is not what matters. How we see ourselves is the only thing that counts in a life in authentic self-value.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“When we develop self-value that’s reflective of our external successes or failure, we allow the world to define our importance.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“my self-value is controlled by me alone. It’s not based on what society thinks, what my community values, or what my friends have achieved. My self-worth is only based on my internal success—the moral and character growth that I achieve.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“Imagine if we started thinking that way in our lives. What matters? How we play our hand. The hand we’re given is out of our control. The outcome of our play: out of our control. The single most important thing is the process. What did we do with the cards we’ve been given?”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“Grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“We’re in absolute control of our effort, our reactions to what happens to us, and our ability to take initiative. We’re in control about the patience we display, the empathy we offer, and the generosity we show. We absolutely and fully control our internal success.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“you are valuable because you are you.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“If you’re waiting for others to recognize you as great, your self-esteem and self-worth are left in the hands of others—out of your control.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“We build self-esteem through realistic and accurate self-appraisal, meaningful accomplishments, overcoming adversities, bouncing back from failures, assuming self-responsibility and maintaining integrity. All these build our sense of competence and self-worth.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“You can’t just give people self-esteem. It’s the by-product of a developed consciousness of value based on your inner essence, and internal successes driven by values and personal growth.”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“If your best is not good enough to achieve the exact outcome you want, how do you still love yourself and feel great and special?”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real

“Failing at This Endeavor Doesn’t Mean I’m a Failure”
― Shona Schwartz, How To Stop Caring What Others Think: For Real