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HEY man who just now sat down at my cafe table while I'm reading in peace and took out his phone and started yakking loudly while wolfing down food, maybe have some courtesy and don't do that BECAUSE I'M FUCKING READING! Dick.
Jul 24, 2015 09:44AM

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message 1: by Geoff (new)

Geoff Maybe I should start reading Nietzsche out loudly over his asinine 'important' conversation. Fuckin' people, I swear!


message 2: by Ashley (new)

Ashley Do it! We're here for you.


message 3: by Geoff (new)

Geoff Oh it's long over now. I'm fine. First world problem. But really discourteous!


message 4: by Ashley (new)

Ashley Once I carried Vollmann's Royal Family into a restaurant and a doucher interrupted me as I was reading (waiting for someone) to ask me if I was reading the Bible (only large book doucher was apparently familiar with). I thought for a moment and said "yes".


message 5: by Geoff (new)

Geoff ATJG wrote: "Once I carried Vollmann's Royal Family into a restaurant and a doucher interrupted me as I was reading (waiting for someone) to ask me if I was reading the Bible (only large book doucher was appare..."

It is a bible of sorts! A bible of whoredom!


message 6: by Geoff (new)

Geoff The thing that really bothers me is that people assume because you're reading you're not doing anything. That reading isn't an activity that needs to be treated as being busy like with any other activity.


message 7: by Ashley (new)

Ashley In most modern American minds, reading is more or less analogous to watching tv or scrolling through a facebook feed. A leisure activity subordinate in every way to the pursuit of money and/or socializing.


message 8: by Geoff (last edited Jul 24, 2015 11:42AM) (new)

Geoff ATJG wrote: "In most modern American minds, reading is more or less analogous to watching tv or scrolling through a facebook feed. A leisure activity subordinate in every way to the pursuit of money and/or soc..."

I have a friend, a really good person in all other regards, who said to me when I asked what she'd been up to, "I was reading this book, but that's not really doing anything, that's kinda just killing time..." I've never thought of her the same again.


message 9: by Glenn (new)

Glenn Sumi I feel for you. That's why I carry earplugs wherever I go. I buy them in bulk. And I try to sit away from blaring cafe speakers and under a strong light.


message 10: by Ashley (new)

Ashley That's another thing: EVERYWHERE you go there's music. Always. Every store, restaurant, cafe, there can be no quiet! I like the earplug idea but I'm thinking obvious might be better, like the huge ear-smothering kind people wear shooting. Imagine Geoff reading there when guy comes up on the phone and Geoff just dons an enormous pair of earsavers.


message 11: by Geoff (new)

Geoff I usually treat experiences such as these as exercises in concentration, but today was beyond the pale. But yes! So much unnecessary music everywhere, when the world sounds so interesting all on its own! I probably won't start bringing ear plugs/muffs/phones with me (I do have a pair of ear protectors made for hunting that I use sometimes when I play my drums - but those are not worn casually!)


message 12: by Jimmy (new)

Jimmy The other day I was reading on a bench and this old couple walked by and said "Now that's not something you see every day anymore! Someone reading an actual book,"

It made me sad.


message 13: by Geoff (new)

Geoff Aww , that's actually pretty sweet though. And sad, yes... But at least they appreciated you!


message 14: by Jonfaith (last edited Jul 24, 2015 05:23PM) (new)

Jonfaith Maybe I'm falsely nostalgic, but wasn't there a time when reading in whatever capacity meant you were occupied: not vulnerable to every whim and hiccup of the terminably bored and needy? Did that time exist, when it was impolite to keep hectoring someone immersed in an open book?


message 15: by Geoff (new)

Geoff I think that time may have existed, yes. As Proust says, the true paradises are the ones we have lost.


message 16: by Jonfaith (new)

Jonfaith Rather Miltonean and doubly Lost. I simply worry.


message 17: by Geoff (new)

Geoff See Jimmy's comment - cause for worry validated. (Lovely sentence there though, Miltonean and doubly lost...)


message 18: by Jonfaith (new)

Jonfaith There was thread here not long ago, I think concerning music. It could no longer shock. Nor could literature. No one notices, nor cares. Maybe we should follow Brecht and elect a new kinship.


message 19: by Geoff (new)

Geoff Hmm I don't know, I've always been happy to defend a lost cause...


message 20: by Jonfaith (new)

Jonfaith You and Slavoj.


message 21: by Nathan "N.R." (new)

Nathan "N.R." Gaddis ATJG wrote: "That's another thing: EVERYWHERE you go there's music. Always. Every store, restaurant, cafe, there can be no quiet! I like the earplug idea but I'm thinking obvious might be better, like the hu..."

I recall a snug little Jenever bar in Brussels(?) that had no television, no music ; just places to sit, sip, read, chat. Still looking for that lost eden.....


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