Tuong Van’s Reviews > The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It > Status Update

Many tips for women how to connect emotionally with husbands. Remember Pavlov conditioning? Train him a little at a time with appreciation and compliments for effort (even botched ones). Making marriage works also requires "hard work, tremendous effort, focus" like everything else.
Oh, and for 12% who cheat no matter what, better give up as soon as finding out. The pains outweigh any possible gains for staying.

54% never told about affair:
-28% never asked
-27% lie even with some evidence
-14% lie until evidences
31% told because questioned
-12% after questioned multiple times
-12% after questioned 1st time
-7% without being question
Meet the other woman at:
-40% work
-32% personal interest activity
-17% neighbourhood
-3% internet
Cheat after meet
-6% same day
-27% <1 month
-36% 1 month-1 year
-69% <1 year.

Warning signs:
1.Spend more time away from home
-55% when close to infidelity
-61% when involved
2.Have sex infrequently
-34% close to infidelity
-43% during
3. Avoid contacts
-29% before
-24% during
4. Criticize more
-25% before
-19% during
5. Start more fights 25%
6. Tell about the other woman.

Influence of friends & family: faithful men have less acquaintances who cheat than cheating men. Most to least influences: close friends, immediate family members, father.
The affair:
-54% one woman
-46% multiple affairs.
Duration:
-47% <1 year
-24% between 1-2 years
-9% 2-4 years
-20% >4 years
Average time before 1st infidelity 6 years

Causes of emotional dissatisfaction:
-37% underappreciated by wife, not thoughtful or caring
-17% emotionally disconnected
-11% lack of communication
-10% no longer share same values
12% wife lost temper
Overall
54% related to wives' appreciation, thoughtfulness & emotional connection

I come across this by accident, but now I know!!!