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The breadth of experience is likely necessary and desirable, But depth is where the gold is buried. And you have to stay commited to something and go deep to dig it up.

Conflict is not only normal, then; it's absolutely necessary for the maintenance of a healthy relationship.

A healthy relationship is when two people solve their own problems in order to feel good about each other.

Healthy love is based on two people acknowledging and addressing their own problems with each other's support.

Emotional Inspiration > Motivation > Desirable action

Just as one must suffer physical pain to build stronger bone and muscle, one must suffer emotional pain to develop greater emotional resilience, a stronger sense of self, increased compassion, and a generally happier life.

Choose endless & controllable goals

- Unrealistic & Non-Controllable: Make everyone I meet like me
- Realistic and Controllable: Express myself honestly to others, no matter what.

Is someone is better than you at something, then it's likely because he/she has failed at it more than you have. If someone is worse than you, it's likey because he hasn't been through all of the painful learning experiences you have.

It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.