الاء’s Reviews > Doing Couple Therapy: Craft and Creativity in Work with Intimate Partners > Status Update
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You want to help "couples" put the crisis in a larger context, help them see that what seems sudden or drastic is actually the product of more subtle, ongoing dynamics.
— Sep 21, 2017 10:56AM
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A lot of couples get stuck in unproductive arguing because they lead with their defenses--they criticize and attack in response to feeling scared or hurt or lonely.
— Sep 21, 2017 01:14PM
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The partner of someone with a borderline personality may feel like he can't do anything right or be hyperalert to the possibility of triggering an outburst of anger.
— Sep 21, 2017 12:42PM
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Help "couples" see that the other person is more complex than he or she seems, that underneath the familiar face of anger or indifference lie deeper emotions and memories.
— Sep 21, 2017 11:49AM
