Jessie Aveyard’s Reviews > The Daily Laws: 366 Meditations > Status Update
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When trying to figure out someones motives behind an action, look to see who it benefits in the end and work backwards. People will say almost anything to justify their actions, judge people on what they did not what they said. If your in a boxing ring and the boxer punches you in the face, you dont whine about the unfairness or cruelty because its part of the game, the same goes in life. Dont take things personally
— Jul 17, 2026 12:34PM
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Jessie Aveyard
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If you are trying to change something do it slowly and make it feel like a gentle improvement on the past. Make people come to you. Show vulnerability at times to people as they get closer to you. Make it seem like you are working as a team by making your improvements slowly and make it seem like they have control over your suggestions. Dont speak too much because other people will try fill the silence.
— Jul 18, 2026 03:36AM
Jessie Aveyard
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Let people think that they are smarter than you. If you seem to want something that you dont care about then people will be thrown off. Sometimes temporarily surrendering is the smartest decision. A devoted arm is extremely valuable. Have a reputation of being a little bit crazy because if you seem too nice then people will not be afraid to walk all over you. Make people think they have a choice when they dont.
— Jul 18, 2026 03:33AM
Jessie Aveyard
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By making what you can offer the world rare and hard to find, you increase value. The more you are seen and heard from, the less valuable your presence is.
— Jul 17, 2026 12:37PM
Jessie Aveyard
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An act of kindness is the most powerful form of distraction because it disarms their suspicion. Not everyone can be treated equally because some people are better at things than others. People cant envy what you have if they gave it to you so make it seem like they did. Be wary of people who are too quick to befriend.
— Jul 17, 2026 12:32PM
Jessie Aveyard
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when choosing people to work with, dont fall for their reputation, choose them based on their character. If someone gets really angry at you and it seems out of proportion it isnt entirely aimed at you, do not worry about the cause, keep your head while they are loosing theirs. When people try to explain them selves with over exaggerated energy or intense denial be wary.
— Jul 17, 2026 12:29PM
Jessie Aveyard
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You need to build an idea of a persons character over time. Don’t judge someone straight away and let them show you who they are through their actions. Don’t offend people even if they seem weak.
— Jul 16, 2026 11:26AM
Jessie Aveyard
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When you do something, act is if you could do so much more. Avoid the temptation of revealing how hard you work. Sometimes trying too hard to fix a mistake can make it worse. Humans try to see familiarity in the actions of others because their predictability gives them a sense of control. Appearing like you have no faults or weaknesses is dangerous, envy creates silent enemies.
— Jul 16, 2026 11:25AM
Jessie Aveyard
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People sometimes draw misfortune on themselves. They will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead. Find those with mutual self interests and make an alliance. We admire bold people and prefer to be around them because their self confidence infects us and draws us outside our own realm if inwardness and reflection. Your fears of the consequences of a bold action are way out of proportion
— Jul 16, 2026 10:00AM
Jessie Aveyard
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seem interested in other peoples problems but keep your inner energy disengaged. Flattery can help you but if its obvious it can make you look desperate. The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated. Ask for more and you will appear like u are worth more. Even those who turn you down will respect you for your confidence.
— Jul 16, 2026 09:56AM