bibi ’s Reviews > Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex > Status Update
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"straight people are rarely treated like they're close-minded for knowing their sexual orientation, but aces are assumed to be unsure and always on the brink of finding the person who will change everything."
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"there can be real grief in lacking or losing sexuality."
— Mar 14, 2026 05:55PM
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"there can be real grief in lacking or losing sexuality."
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bibi
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"I believed that my desire for monogamy and disinterest in casual sex were not preferences worthy of honoring, but political and moral failings that must be overcome. I thought I was weak and stupid."
— Feb 16, 2026 08:12AM
bibi
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"the ace world isn't a straight line with ace people on one side, non-aces on the other, and demis somewhere in the middle. it's an umbrella that covers different, diverse, and sometimes inconsistent experiences, including ones that don't perfectly hew to the "lack of sexual attraction" definition."
— Feb 10, 2026 11:55AM
