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Difference between being harmed and feeling hurt?
Consent
True honesty: self-reflection + openness
Integrity (codependence can't be the norm)
Recognise the ramification (it's hard to be unconventional and free; it's hard to live in a world that's not made for you)
Respect (trust and internal locus of control)
Responsibility (minimalising harm???)
"...be prepared to hear from others who have made different choices"
— 5 hours, 21 min ago
Consent
True honesty: self-reflection + openness
Integrity (codependence can't be the norm)
Recognise the ramification (it's hard to be unconventional and free; it's hard to live in a world that's not made for you)
Respect (trust and internal locus of control)
Responsibility (minimalising harm???)
"...be prepared to hear from others who have made different choices"
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Intrumental non-monogamy
- approaching something missing in your relationship(s) - sex, similar hobbies
- only possible with people that have it v piči (don't get screwed (hurt badly) for life by the screwing) - truly informed and responsible consent necessary (high trust necessary*)
*To what extend should you try to figure out if you can believe an adult their understanding and responsibility for themselves?
— 5 hours, 21 min ago
- approaching something missing in your relationship(s) - sex, similar hobbies
- only possible with people that have it v piči (don't get screwed (hurt badly) for life by the screwing) - truly informed and responsible consent necessary (high trust necessary*)
*To what extend should you try to figure out if you can believe an adult their understanding and responsibility for themselves?
Pajzar
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Don't let your relationships take away from each other. Take on only as much as you can handle.
Critique of the Myths:
- Love and genetalia (innervation) don't really have to have anything to do with each other.
- I didn't like the shaming of how love can (not should) be experienced
Love = goal directed behaviour, adaptive and human in it's flexibility
— 5 hours, 22 min ago
Critique of the Myths:
- Love and genetalia (innervation) don't really have to have anything to do with each other.
- I didn't like the shaming of how love can (not should) be experienced
Love = goal directed behaviour, adaptive and human in it's flexibility
Pajzar
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Is being sexually desired a need for my self-esteem?
> I don't think so. I'm looking back at the time period after Tadeáš and after the crazy after matura madness, and I didn't want sex in particular (that was why it all fell apart with Dory for example). I want intimacy, sex is a shape it pften takes and I let it. I enjoy it. Sometimes it makes me sad it's such a default.
— 5 hours, 22 min ago
> I don't think so. I'm looking back at the time period after Tadeáš and after the crazy after matura madness, and I didn't want sex in particular (that was why it all fell apart with Dory for example). I want intimacy, sex is a shape it pften takes and I let it. I enjoy it. Sometimes it makes me sad it's such a default.
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Always telling lovers apart
- respect for persons (don't dehumanise)
- appreciation of individual differences
Kinsey: Nymphomaniac = someone who has more sex than you
ethicallity of a slut measured on respect and care given to each of their relationship
harmful pathologising of sexual freedom (having or not having sex to various extends)
— 5 hours, 22 min ago
- respect for persons (don't dehumanise)
- appreciation of individual differences
Kinsey: Nymphomaniac = someone who has more sex than you
ethicallity of a slut measured on respect and care given to each of their relationship
harmful pathologising of sexual freedom (having or not having sex to various extends)
Pajzar
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I am like pissing my pants with excitement over this book💥💫
— 5 hours, 23 min ago
